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writes: I have been dating this guy for four months now. I do not know if whether or not he likes or care for me the way I do. I want to be in a relationship with this guy, but I feel that he is not giving any of himself to me Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, bqagirl2692 +, writes (5 December 2007):
Sweetie, some people dont put themselves out there as easily as other do. Some of them take time to see the whole side of them. Just because he hasnt fully shown his whole side to you does not mean he doesnt care for you. Give it some time. Give him some time considering you've only been dating for 4 months. Some people take up to a year to get comfortable completely. Have patience with him. Talk to him about this. Maybe he's had bad experience in the past that has caused him to be very careful on how much he opens up to someone. He accepted to be with you for a reason. HE must have been interested. Talk to him and just have patience. He'll come around.
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