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Why do we always hurt the ones we love?

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Question - (4 December 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 5 December 2007)
A female Philippines age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I HAVE A BF,BUT HE STILL KEEP HIS COMMUNICATION WITH HIS EX GF,I COULDN'T COMPLAIN ABOUT THIS BECAUSE I DON'T WANT TO MAKE HIM THINK THAT I DON'T TRUST HIM,BUT IT HURTS ME BECAUSE I HAVE THIS FEELING THAT HE STILL HAVE A "SORT OF FEELING" TOWARDS HIS EX.EVEN THOUGH WERE TOGETHER EVERYDAY,SO I DON'T THINK IT WOULD BE POSSIBLE FOR THEM TO SEE EACH OTHER,BUT I CAN'T AVOID THIS FEELING OF DOUBTFULNESS.,WHAT AM GONNA DO?,PLEASE HELP.TNX..

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2007):

Why dont you have a good long chat with him and let him know just how you feel. They all say they have to stay friends with their exs for various different reasons but honestly, i bloody hate EXS!!! They have been the bain of my life. If there are not kids involved then i dont see any need to keep in touch. Tell him to push her far into the background. You dont mind him keeping in touch once in a while but then you have to remind him that he is with you and you alone. You are not asking too much, so be strong and let him know just how you feel.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2007):

I have exactly the same problem - My boyfriend says he loves me but still keeps in contact with his ex. Just think to yourself you are much better than that and he will never go back to her. Infact you should feel sorry for her!!! cause she's in the past. But be aware put your foot down and don't take any crap from your boyfriend. Like contacting his ex everyday and texting is not acceptable.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2007):

you know, I have the same problem... my Broke up with my BF, cause his ex GR said that there were still together, what in the end turnd out that she was lying... and there are just friends... my advise to you, is that don't remind him about his EX. just be yourself and do everything to make him fall in love with you... and believe me that he will forget her in a while... This is my advise to you....

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