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writes:ok here it goes i guess its alot like the others posted on here but i feel when it comes to me and men theirs a bermuda triangle i can be flirtacious fun and caring and i get flirted back but when i take more of an interest its like all of a sudden it stops and when i dont show interest they do it again..it feels like cat and mouse.. maybe they dont want a relationships or its just fun but how do you know without asking them an i dont wanna make no fool out of myself any advice xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2007): Boys are sometimes hard to figure out...because sometimes you may be trusting the wrong people. Maybe it took them alot of confidence to find ways to flirts with you and when you do flirt back, maybe they get scared and don't know what to do. Just try to make them feel not afraid.
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reader, Sweet-thing +, writes (5 December 2007):
 Younger men can sometimes be immature like this. They enjoy the chase, but grow bored with their catch once they have it. You may have to try dating older guys to find someone who will step up to the plate and quit playing games, but I will say one thing - men usually like to be the agressors when it comes to this game of cat and mouse. If you show too much interest too soon you will seem easy. And you know the old saying, things that are easily obtained, are usually taken for granted. On the other hand, things they have to actually work for, seem more appealing. They like a challenge and men will typically pursue a woman that is more difficult to get because it makes them feel like you aren't available to just any Joe and this makes you more appealing from the start. Be more aloof, make them work for your attention, act a little unimpressed but be coy about it, giving them a few hints and a few little signs that they might have a chance so they don't give up altogether. Good luck.
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reader, Psyx  +, writes (5 December 2007):
 Maybe you should decide which specific guy you want,then stop being flirty with all the guys and be sincere with him...not just flirty.Tell him you like him etc...
Maybe the guys think that youre just a flirt and thats why they flirt with you!no guy can resist flirting with a nice girl!
However when a guy is looking for a girl to have a relationship with,he wants a girl who wont cheat on him and will be like a best friend for him.Not just a flirt...
try applying this
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