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*achakaRoni
writes:I'm scared of losing the guy I love, I known him for a few years and for the last 4 months everything has been good between us, he has been like a boyfriend- even though we aren't. He has done and said stuff that a boyfriend would do or say but today he said he didn't know if he fancied me and if he saw me in a different way. He says he's confused but when he does this it scares me coz I know how I feel, and I don't want to lose him and the way he feels about me. I'm also scared even though hes changed since last year, at this time last year he went off with another girl- even though we were just casually seeing one other. I don't know if I should do anything or carry on with the way things are going? Reply to this Question
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reader, ShyGuy78  +, writes (4 December 2007):
 One sided love affairs are quite painful. But do realize that you cannot "make" someone love you! If it has to happen, it will!Keep a timeline and let things flow on their own till then. Don't push things and don't expect too much. At the end of the timeline if he still isn't sure then don't wait any longer, move on!Wish you luck!
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