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writes:My girlfriend strips. She is doing it to make her way through school. She is pre med , full time credits, and doesnt have much time to do things outside of school. The club gives her an oppurtunity to make decent money choosing her own hours. im okay with her stripping, but the "private room" bothers me.That is where the other girls say they make the bulk of their money. I wonder why? She has only been doing this for a week but was the ultimate Catholic school virgin at 19 until she met me.I'm 33 and some say that there is a problem with that but i didnt seek out a 19 year old. It just happened.but yeah, im okay with this.yif you have to trust her. If you dont, it will never work.It's a great way for her to earn decent money. alot more than the gap which is where she was working. Anyway any advice from either side would be appreciated.P.s if u have a problem with her doing it, you need to look in the mirror. the problem may be your own.
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reader, bqagirl2692 +, writes (5 December 2007):
 As long as you accept her for what she does then thats all that matters. Who cares what anyone has to say about what your girlfriend has as a job. A job is a job and it does what needs to get done. Its good that you trust in your girlfriend a lot despite of how she makes her money. Anyways, i think you should just discuss with yoour girlfriend that problem that seems to bother you. Let her know that you trust her and you accept what she does but considering how you feel about it, ask her if she minds just to strip without dancing in private. Explain to her your feelings and worries about the whole thing. I think she'll understand and consider it. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2007): If she loves you DON'T WORRY!
Trust her but of course be careful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2007): Try going to the club where she strips and see what she's doing. If she looks happy with it, you should accept her decisions. If she looks nervous or uncomfortable, you should talk to her about it.
People make mistakes all the time, and learn from their mistakes..
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reader, esepalo1 +, writes (4 December 2007):
 To each is own i guess i know i would have a problem with it i mean say your at a store shopping and shes noticed by a guy whos seen her at the strip club and he approches her how you gonna feel.Private room says it all im a delivery guy to strip clubs so i know what goes down in the private room why do you think they make the bulk money there in my town the strip clubs get busted for prostitution from the private room but hey if your not jealous or if you trust her and shes not like the 1000s of girls saying they just do it for the money then stay.Look in the future and you got kids and shes still stripping your kid gos to school and its carear day whats your kid gonna say my moms a stripper.THINK ABOUT IT.
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