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writes:Argh! I don't know what to do anymore. I think i'm losing it. I'm just completely depressed. I just dumped my boyfriend for this other guy as bitchy as it sounds. And he's like stalking me! The guy i dumped him for had sex with one of my best friends just last Friday. And she has a boyfriend! All my freinds seem to be killing me inside. I'm just completely depressed. I can't do anything. And i need to speak to the guy i dumped the guy for but he's all like oh i hate clingy people so i dont want to show the slightest clingyness! But i feel so depressed and i just need someone to talk to. I don't know what to do! I'm in pain! please someone give me some kind of advice!!
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (5 December 2007):
Sweety,you are what we call a victim of circumstances and you need to learn to look to the future for better opportunities.Avoid the stalker and stay away from the cheater.I know how you feel and if you keep being close to the cheater,he'll leave you more hurt next time.Your friend's also a betrayer and if i were you,i'd cut links with her.What assurance is there that she won't do it again if she remains your friend? Hard as it may be find new friends and move on.
All the best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2007): So first you dumped your BF for a guy who has slept around among your friends already. And now, after getting with this other guy, you're acting surprised and hurt that he's losing interest in you right away?
Are you gonna sit here and tell me that you DIDN'T see this coming a mile away?
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reader, bqagirl2692  +, writes (5 December 2007):
 Well sweetie, sometimes we are gievn signs that try to open our eyes and see all the negativity that surrounds us. First of all, that " friend" of yours isnt much of a true friend nor girlfriend. She doesnt have respect for you, her boyfriend, nor herself. Seems like she has no problem betraying the people who most trust her. Second of all, the guy you chose to be with wasnt such a good idea after all. He must have not really cared for you in the first place. Third of all, you should explain things to your ex ( im not saying get back with him alothough its your choice). Just leave things on a friendlier note. Take this as a lesson learned and a helping hand that lifted the blind folds off yoour eyes. Dont put yourself down for anyone. Especially people who arent worth the suffering. Your better than that and you deserve better. My advice is to leave all those people behind and start new. Have confidence in yourself and more dignity. You'll get better.
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reader, Heartly +, writes (5 December 2007):
 Im unsure which one is stalking you but stay away from him and the one that cheated on you ... Bad news ! Dont let other people and what they say or think , get to you ! they dont walk in your shoes and the last time I looked ,God made No one perfect. so dont be so hard on yourself. Take some time and think about what you want , not what everyone wants for you ! You will figure it out , If you dont let other people influence you ! Go with your gut !!!!
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