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writes:Me and my Gf have been going out for 4 months now and we have always been very open with each other. We decided not to have sex, so we go very close to doing it, but not all the way...our relationship has been awesome until someone told her that anything more than kissing passionately without being married is wrong...Now were down to JUST kissing! And I dont feel like she needs me anymore.What makes it worse is the fact that I am moving away next year and that I would have to drive in every weekend to see her. But I dont feel like I have anything to come back to.I really love her, but I feel our relationship falling apart fast!Please give me some advice on what I should do...
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reader, Psyx +, writes (25 December 2007):
Psyx is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanx for the advice,we had a long talk and sorted everything out.We set new boundaries that suits both of us and now everything is going better!~Thanx~
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (5 December 2007):
Dude i understand your pain.I also have to come up with a "master plan" to get some.But the truth of the matter's that if she's being sincere,you have a great girl on your hands.For such girls i belive they should start dating when they know they'll soon be ready for marraige as early dating can put pressure in her partner if he's not willing to wait as most guys are.Seems like you have no choice but to make musturbation your good friend unless you say you'll die if you don't have sex soon.If so leave her and find someone who'll fufill your fantasies and sexual wishes.
All the best.
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reader, bqagirl2692  +, writes (5 December 2007):
 Accept and understand her beliefs. Being in a relationship is much more than sexual encounters. You have to understand that if she doesnt want to have anything else but kissing then if you care for her, accept that. Show her that you'll be by her side with whatever she decides. Think about whats more imprtant. Sex or her heart? If you love her as much as you say you do then understand her. Take the time and try to listen to her reasons of beieveing in that. Dont give up on this relationship. Good luck!
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reader, Heartly +, writes (5 December 2007):
 I think her issue is a christian and a moral one ! Witch in my oppinion is great ! sounds like you have a wonderful girl But I also understand what you need too , so my suggestion would be for the two of you to talk to a pastor or prest and get an oppionion straight from him . And please dont think that you have to have sex to have a relation ship . If she is one of the few that want to wait till marrage for that to happen , I hope that you will suport her in that . It will be worth the wait !!!!!
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reader, Emajayne  +, writes (5 December 2007):
 hmmm....this girl is very gullible. It is all a preference. That is it. Maybe you should sit down with her and talk it out. Just come out and say it...none of this trying to be nice stuff...It is affecting u badly and it isn't fair. On the other hand, she could take it as if u dont want her for anything else than the physical pleasures, or could just take it wrong in general, like in a way that u dont respect her. You seem like a nice guy, so...i see what u are getting at. The physical stuff is important in a relationship, but if u dotn want to talk to her about it, consider this a test for urself. How long can u go in a relationship, claiming to love them, and not being able to touch them. Just a taste here and there. Can you last?
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