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writes:i split with my wife after being together nearly six years (married for one) I could not get over her , we just drifted apart but i still loved her. we finally sorted things out but she treats me really bad now ! She is always on facebook and when i come in the room she seems to hide what she is doin on line. I used to trust her 100% but im scared of being hurt again now . Im stuck please help ! ive tried talking but she just tells me off and gets moody. WHats going on ?
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reader, Sweet-thing  +, writes (5 December 2007):
 I think your wife feels trapped, being so young and involved with the same guy for so many years. I think she's curious about what else is out there and this is why she's hiding things from you. She's searching. More than likely this relationship isn't going to work out and no one deserves to be treated the way she has been treating you. You need to go to couples counseling and figure out what the future holds and be prepared to let her go if necessary. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2007): It sounds very similar to my ex fiance.I could have wrote this myself. Ok,she hides what she`s doing online,because she wouldnt like it if you was doing the same. Its a shame you still love her because you are in a lifetime of uncertainty and unhappiness if you stay.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2007): She`s hiding what she is doing because she wouldnt like it if you was doing the same. I have gone through over 18 months of the same shit. It doesnt get better. If she`s hiding things from you,then its time to stand your ground and challenge her. Its a pity you didnt meet someone else whilst you was apart. You are scared of being hurt,but i think you know and you`re already hurt. Personaly,if you can find the strength to leave,it will be for the best.
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