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writes:I've bin with my boyfriend for over a year now but i think i dont love him anymore. We have grown apart, i what to go out and have fun but he wants to stay in and watch tv. I do enjoy a night in but not all the time and when i do want to go out its always an argument on what im wearing who im going with and if im going to drink. Should i end it or should i give him a chance to change? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2007): Hi. I'm 20 years old and my boyfriend is 25 and I have exactly the same problem! My boyfriend says if I want to go out drinking to do it with my friends, as he doesn't want to. But I feel if I do all the things i want to do, we will never ever see each other.
So... I have for the last month changed my life style totally. Make plans with other people! If you dont live with your man then pretend your having a night out with the girls, even if your not. After a couple of weeks he will start to worry your going to find someone else! If he doesn' change unfortunately nothing can be done. Good luck!
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reader, bqagirl2692  +, writes (5 December 2007):
 Give him a chance to change. Let him know your feelings and explain to him that you both need to go out and breathe away from the t.v! Relationships need excitement time to time because when you begin to let go, thats when the doubts start kicking in. Dont give up on your relationship. Simply discuss things with him and ask him to consider making a change due to how you feel about it. The both of you need to plan a day for yoourselves. Maybe you should just surprise him rather than just asking him. Im not saying to force him to go out but sorta give him a little push than just letting it go. This isnt much of a big problem so it still can be fixed. Dont give up on your relationship. IT takes a little time and effort to achieve what you highly desire. Good luck and i hope your boyfriend can let go of the t.v for a while!
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