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I have four children. I'm a single parent, of two children a boy (19) and a girl (10). My ex-wife has the two children we share living with her, 2 girls (16, and 14).
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6 July 2008: This is an article I received from local news. When reading this I think about how important it is to know who you know, and to notice changes in the behaviors of others. In cases like this, the agressor displays subtle signs prior to acting. He may ...
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My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 27 March 2009: Best of Luck to you. Take care. ... (read in full...)
It's a matter of time before he does this again.
Q. My boyfriend and I have been a committed gay relationship for the last six years. We have been living toether for five years, and from time to time, his brother has live with us, you know on and off. Whenever his brother moves back in, I am ...
A. 10 January 2009: I'm glad its taking the direction it is. As far as the boy, or other victims, it's not your fault. The one who commits the act is the one responsible. You can't be blamed for that or blame yourself.
Look at this from a different angle. If I were... (read in full...)
Lost my feelings for my abusive husband-should I leave?
Q. Hello, Im in my mid twenties and am married for less than a year, and been with the man for only 2 years. I have one child ( 2 yr old) from a previouse relationship where I was with the man for 6 years, and a newborn with my husband. Everythi...
A. 1 November 2008: It can be hard. I'm raising two of my children on my own and have a third moving in with me next week. It can be hard. I was in an abusive relationship where the woman was violent. Mainly because of a mental disorder, but my children were still ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 11 July 2008: Hasn't your solicitor heard of a continuance. You have the right to be hard in all matters of law.
After these decisions are made, do you have a higher court to appeal the ruling of a lower court? I don't believe your solicitor did a job the best... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 1 July 2008: Sounds like you're doing better, as a manner of speaking. Your right it doesn't look good to the judge to drag out court.
Just a bit of warning. Seeing someone prior to the end of the divorce can be used in court as well. Legal marriage, is lega... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 9 June 2008: That's what you need to concentrate on. As far as his taking the solicitor out to lunch and such. Violation of ethics. People here get their licenses taken away or suspended for those behaviors.
Keep a calendar of all issues. Everytime he cance... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 27 May 2008: If you can establish proof of his dating his solicitor, that should establish a conflict of interest, which would pull her off the case, and may cause issues with her ability to continue law.
I woulnd't accept less than what you feel you dese... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 15 May 2008: If he seeks an injunction, a hearing should be set to answer to it. If his calls were done by home phone, have your phone company pull a copy of those records which show his phone calls to you. If they are done by cell phone, your bill should ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 26 April 2008: I know this is hard for you to deal with. Working with people who have been through divorce and seeing the after affects, it's heart breaking. I can't figure out your question either of how someone can act or live as if they love and care for ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 19 April 2008: The first piece of advice anyone one law gives is to not speak to the other person. Speak through your legal professionals. Reason being, "anything you say can be used against you in court." Couples who split up can get into some heated arguments. ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 11 March 2008: I'm glad everything is working out for you. I can see where your solicitor is coming from. I'm in law as well and hoping to begin in family law. My two big pet peeves in family law are adultry and any lack of responsability on the best interest of ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 22 February 2008: First of all, make sure you file your response within the time the court has allowed, it's generall (at least here) 30 days from the date you receive the paperwork. Remember too, the response, if you do it prior to meeting with the solicitor, i... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 9 February 2008: Great, have your son contact me on here, I'll let him know you give your permission to toss your phone in the river.
Let me ask you this. If you didn't have your phone, would that stop you, or would you find another way?
Do you believe life... (read in full...)
I'm afraid to tell my bf I'm pregnant. I'm 16 and he's currently in another country until June.
Q. A little help here guys? Okay im 16 years old and 4 weeks ago my boyfriend moved to another country, to be back sometime between January and June!! BIG problem. Today i found out, im six weeks pregnant, definatley my boyfriends i...
A. 15 November 2007: See, guys sometimes turn out OK and happy when they know they're going to be a father. Best of luck to you.... (read in full...)
In love with the man I'm having an emotional affair with, but don't have the strength to leave my husband.
Q. I've been having an emotional affair with a guy i work with for 4 years, we email all the time. he also sees someone we both work with. I am married. I am in love with him, but don't have the strength to leave my husband.Any advice?...
A. 14 November 2007: If I was having an emotional affair with someone, who would just up and leave their husband. That would tell me to turn the other direction and run. And this other man is seeing someone too, and having this emotional affair. So I guess he finds ... (read in full...)
I'm 16, in love with 24 yr old dirtbiker, I'm thinking of giving everything up for him, good idea?
Q. im a 16 year old girl whos in love with a 24 year old guy. ya see he works out a dirtbiking place i go camping at every weekend with my dad. when he has to go out on the trails to do sumtin he usually drags me out there and we just stand there and ...
A. 14 November 2007: I would still wait until you're 18. At your age, your hormones are going to be doing jumping jacks. With that, your going to begin being an adult. Don't play adult, until it's time to be one. ... (read in full...)
Should I tell him I lied before we have sex.
Q. im 22 and am still a virgin. ive been seeing this guy on and off but its hard because he goes to school in a different country.the last time met up i lied and said i was with another guy for a while and we had sex but didnt. im going to visit him ...
A. 14 November 2007: I think this is something you'll want to mention. ... (read in full...)
Should I bring up the divorce or wait?
Q. I have been married for 4 years. I have 2 little girls 3 and 1. The last year has been quite bad in our marriage and we even spoke together about divorce on a couple occasions. we decided to work on it, but i am not in love with him or even remotely ...
A. 14 November 2007: Doesn't anyone still believe in finding out what the issues are and trying to work their issues out. It's not easy, if it was it wouldn't be called work.
Let me ask you a question. Was there anytime during your marriage you were remotely attracte... (read in full...)
He doesn't know I decided to get a divorce
Q. I met a guy back in June. He's married and so am I. We were both in situation where we were only staying for the sake of the children and wanting to give them a stable home. We've only been together physically a couple times in the last 5 months, ...
A. 14 November 2007: This is just so cute. Two people who MAKE each other happy. You do understand if it takes someone to make you happy, you're not nearly ready for a relationship. You're using him to fill a void that you're missing. Do you think it's fair to your kids ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 13 November 2007: Your doing what's right. I hope your strength keeps building. I know it's hard sometimes around the holidays to be alone. Before I got custody of my children. I would eat Christmas dinner alone at a diner. But other than that, being alone was OK. I ... (read in full...)
What can I do to get her back?
Q. Hey I just tonight think i lost my wife, i have done everything to make her happy and healthy. Then tonight she tells me she wants to leave and move in with a ex-boyfriend who by the way cheated on her over 40 times in 6 months. My question is w...
A. 13 November 2007: Please expand on your information. What are her reasons she give you for wanting to make this change? ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid to tell my bf I'm pregnant. I'm 16 and he's currently in another country until June.
Q. A little help here guys? Okay im 16 years old and 4 weeks ago my boyfriend moved to another country, to be back sometime between January and June!! BIG problem. Today i found out, im six weeks pregnant, definatley my boyfriends i...
A. 13 November 2007: He said he'd be all right with it. I'd just tell him. He deserves to know. I know it's not a mistake, but in a way your fear treats it as such. Don't be fearful and treat this moment as something special the two of you will have this gift to share ... (read in full...)
How can I avoid these feelings I have for my mother?
Q. I accidently visited your website and your advises are good. I don't know you can give me an advise with my problem. If you think you can't please advise me the alternate solutions. I am really shy to tell this and keeping my name anonymous. I am ...
A. 13 November 2007: There's nothing wrong with you. It's not fact that it's your mother, I think it has more to do with the revealing clothing she's wearing when talking to you. She may not realize what this revealing is doing to you. If it was my mom, I'd just say ... (read in full...)
She's not so intuitive as me. Do I tell her?
Q. My friend and I get on very well, but lately it's beginning to feel like I'm the one who always solves all her problems, I'm the one she comes to for advice, I'm the one she comes to for a shoulder to cry on. I don't mind any of this in the ...
A. 13 November 2007: I think you're reading it the wrong way. Some people have the ability to notice when something is wrong and others don't. When giving a shoulder to cry on, and advise, you need to do so without requiring or expecting anything in return. Treasure and ... (read in full...)
I want to leave but I just can't.
Q. i`ve been with my boyfriend for two years but about a year ago i lied to him but i really didnt mean to i was supposed to travel for the weekend then i didnt so i stayed at a hotel with my girl friends then after a week he found out and broke up ...
A. 13 November 2007: Then if he's not at all willing to meet you half way to get over this, let him know you tried, he still lives in the past and you're not willing to live like this so it's time to end it and start over. Just make sure if you get into another ... (read in full...)
I'm 16, in love with 24 yr old dirtbiker, I'm thinking of giving everything up for him, good idea?
Q. im a 16 year old girl whos in love with a 24 year old guy. ya see he works out a dirtbiking place i go camping at every weekend with my dad. when he has to go out on the trails to do sumtin he usually drags me out there and we just stand there and ...
A. 13 November 2007: Ok then. How about this. He's not too old for you, you're too young for him.
Let me tell you a bit of my history, before taking charge of my own life. I was 18, got offered a job in a big city, great income (2500.00 per week) I turned it down beca... (read in full...)
Could someone get pregnant because of my hands?
Q. I am a male. I masturbate in the shower sometimes. Most of the time i make sure no cum gets on my hands. And even if it does, I rinse it off with soap ...I was wondering if someone can get pregnant because of the remaining cum ? ...
A. 13 November 2007: nope... (read in full...)
I want to leave but I just can't.
Q. i`ve been with my boyfriend for two years but about a year ago i lied to him but i really didnt mean to i was supposed to travel for the weekend then i didnt so i stayed at a hotel with my girl friends then after a week he found out and broke up ...
A. 13 November 2007: Some times people hang on to the past. It's brought up in other arguments many times because they know they're in the process of loosing the argument.
First when not arguing you need to ask him how the two of you can move past this. Let him know... (read in full...)
She's walked out on me, said I was controlling, but I think she's just stressed , I want her back, help me!
Q. hello, i have been with my wife for five years.she has had a lot of stress with work(not wanting to work with certain people), and personal issues as far as not having a sexual desire, and she came home the other day crying about how family members ...
A. 13 November 2007: I definitely agree with the other comments. One other area that shows an element of control is where you "told her" she could finish later. She must have all ready been apparently upset from that day. The last thing I would mention is anything about ... (read in full...)
I have run up huge debts on my husbands credit card and now he is seeing his solicitor.
Q. I have told my husband that I have run up credit cards.Two are in his name and he knows he's liable for them. It is a significant amount. He left to live with his parents, ten days ago, whilst I am left at the business house to deal with it all. I ...
A. 12 November 2007: You say he's never forgiven you for adultery? Let me ask you this, when you say you deeply regret it, have you forgiven yourself for this action? Then you say you may be addicted to spending. You've treated this relationship in a poor fashion. Lying ... (read in full...)
She won't change her mind.
Q. i need help i have been with my parter for 20 years and she wants to leave as she says that she has no feelings for me. i have asked her why and she tell me that i have hert her to many time she will not let things that have happend in the past go ...
A. 12 November 2007: In order to provide you with advise, more information is needed. What forms of hurts does she feel you committed to cause her to feel this way? How long have you notice the decline in your relationship, or her behaviors negative toward you.
Thank... (read in full...)
It's a matter of time before he does this again.
Q. My boyfriend and I have been a committed gay relationship for the last six years. We have been living toether for five years, and from time to time, his brother has live with us, you know on and off. Whenever his brother moves back in, I am ...
A. 12 November 2007: Here's what you need to do. First of all, realize you can't live like this. It's not fair, and no one, no matter male, female, sexual orientation, has to live in fear. You need to also realize the sadistic manner which this happened. Cutting his ... (read in full...)
Am I ready for sex?
Q. i am 12 years old and i think that i am ready for sex but i dont know....i dream about sex and fantasize about a boys private.....am i ready?...
A. 12 November 2007: People begin dreaming about this before you're ready. When you're really ready you'll know. Make sure it's right, with the right guy. You can only have your first experience once, make sure it's not one you regret having. ... (read in full...)
I have run up huge debts on my husbands credit card and now he is seeing his solicitor.
Q. I have told my husband that I have run up credit cards.Two are in his name and he knows he's liable for them. It is a significant amount. He left to live with his parents, ten days ago, whilst I am left at the business house to deal with it all. I ...
A. 12 November 2007: No there aren't many reasons for you doing this......
No matter what someone else does. No one has that kind of power where their actions cause actions in another person. Your actions are due to choice. Your affair was a choice and your spending... (read in full...)
He's abused me, now I'm finally ready to leave him, should I have anything to fear?
Q. I am an unhappily married person,and have been for some time. I have been with my husband for 12 years, living together for six years and married for six. Over the course of our marriage he has cheated repeatedly, used my trust against me and ...
A. 12 November 2007: Your first step is to leave and get to a safe place. Next, if it seems as if he's not going to let go easy, you'll need to contact your attorney or the police department and have a restraining order issued. There are agencies there to help you, you ... (read in full...)
Would a man in love chase her and not let her get away.
Q. Hi there, just wondered if you could offer some friendly advice? I am in love with a man who is recently out of a 15 year relationship. I'm not sure who left who as he is sensitive about it, understandably. He and his ex wife has split their ...
A. 12 November 2007: I can see where he would be a bit secret with the relationship at this point. Divorce is hard. It depends on if he's in a fault or no-fault divorce jurisdiction. In a fault jurisdiction your relationship could harm his case, as it's recognized that ... (read in full...)
I'm tired of being mad.
Q. I cant seem to trust my husband anymore.Im finding info to lead to other females hes in contact with but when i bring it up nothing really comes out of it.We have been together so long that sometimes I'm not sure if its me or him that has a ...
A. 11 November 2007: Relationships have and need and require an element of respect, and trust. I love my children, hanging with my children, and our of respect for them and my household, I don't have many females I talk to because I don't want them to get confused, and ... (read in full...)
They'll probably kick me out of University.
Q. Hi, I'm a university student and I just started in September. I have also been working for Sainsbury’s supermarket for 2 years. When I got my lecture schedule it became apparent that it would clash with my work schedule. When I asked them to change ...
A. 11 November 2007: I think before making any decisions you need to go in and speak to one of your career counselors. Quite a few schools do have these rules but all though they exist, at time unavoidable situations may make a different. Don't do anything until you ... (read in full...)
I'll keep running back to him,
Q. I am going out with a lovely, sweet amazing guy. He does everything for me but all i can think about is my ex boyfriend. A few days ago i slept wiv my ex i feel terrible, but my feelings for my ex are too strong, even though we broke up 3 months ...
A. 11 November 2007: First, you need to tell your boyfriend you cheated on him. I'd just let him go. It's not fair to him with your feelings with your ex to be kept in a relationship that is predetermined not to work anyway.
Then you deal with your ex. Remember, havi... (read in full...)
I found out he's married.
Q. i recently startyed a relationship with a man which ive just found out hes married and has been for 9 years,the thing is i said yes for it to carrie on,but now im having second minds im single and i do find that im really enjoying myself but i also ...
A. 11 November 2007: Let me ask you this. If you were the wife, would you condone this affair with your husband and another girl? How would you feel? Put yourself in her shoes, and knowing her husband is out with you while she's at home taking care of the house.
I... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to have this relationship
Q. Hi me and my I.T teacher havin been seeing each other for two years shes 33 n im 17.But shes married with two kids and she told me last week she was pregnant and it was mine. She said she will leave her husband and kids i dont know what to do. I ...
A. 11 November 2007: This is such a difficult question. Your young, are you in a position to support a family. You'll be obligated to your child (if the child is yours) but are you ready to have an adult relationship.
If I were you I'd just be a dad to your child if i... (read in full...)
I'm married with 6 children and has fallen out of love with my wife. I'm in love with another woman but don't want to leave my children, what to do?
Q. Hello - I have been married for 14 years. We have 6, yes 6, children. 2 of them are relatives we adopted due to substance abuse by the parents - it seemed better to take them in since the only alternative was to let them fall into the state ...
A. 11 November 2007: I don't know if I would believe that either. She needs to go to a psychologist for a proper diagnosis. Her behavior sounds as if she may have PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder) If the uncles did do something to her, this would explain the reason ... (read in full...)
Lost my feelings for my abusive husband-should I leave?
Q. Hello, Im in my mid twenties and am married for less than a year, and been with the man for only 2 years. I have one child ( 2 yr old) from a previouse relationship where I was with the man for 6 years, and a newborn with my husband. Everythi...
A. 11 November 2007: Excuses, excuses. He makes excuses for why he's abusive, and you make excuses for why you remain in the situation. Should you give up so quickly, yea, and you should have 8 months ago when the abuse began. Even if he says he's going to change, he ... (read in full...)
I'm married with 6 children and has fallen out of love with my wife. I'm in love with another woman but don't want to leave my children, what to do?
Q. Hello - I have been married for 14 years. We have 6, yes 6, children. 2 of them are relatives we adopted due to substance abuse by the parents - it seemed better to take them in since the only alternative was to let them fall into the state ...
A. 10 November 2007: What is happening to "for better or worse." I really don't think it say "for better or until you find someone else." That would really devalue marriage, but actions that simulate that do the same.
Here's a couple of questions we need answered. (1) ... (read in full...)
She tells me I can't go to meet her friends.
Q. Well where do i start, im 15 and my girlfriend is 15, (i know i know typically you think because we are young we dont have some of the same relationship problems as adults, but that is not true, just listen to my problem) we have been dating a ...
A. 10 November 2007: I don't think it's that children don't have issues in their relationships, after reading this piece you wrote, It shows the lack of knowledge and experience in effectively handling the issues that are presented.
You guys should have stayed b... (read in full...)
She is taking my baby away from me before it is even born. What can I do?
Q. My ex girlfield is about to have my baby and is trying to stop me from having contact see is back with her ex of 4 years and is getting married next year see says she will put his name down as the father and he has agreed although he knows he is not ...
A. 10 November 2007: I know our laws in the states and yours are fairly similar. I'm in law as well, and am going into family law as a profession.
First, check on-line in your area to see if they have what is known as a paternity registry. Our country now has one ... (read in full...)
He's looking at teen sites, is he a pedophile
Q. So a little background info: Me and my husband, a US Marine, are both 19, and we got married this year in a quick ceremony. Four days before we got married, I found out (thru snooping in his email that he gave me the password to) that he cheated on ...
A. 10 November 2007: If he's leaving fairly soon. I would have you little talk with him before hand. If this isn't settled it's going to take the jealousy, insecurity, and wondering to an accelerated level. What I'm worried about for you if it's not taken care of, I ... (read in full...)
He's controlling, what can I do.
Q. I broke up with my ex a month ago, and a week later he had all these new girls added to his myspace. He kept calling me for awhile saying how much he loved me, but how could that be true if he already has all these blondes that are 19 and 21 on his ...
A. 10 November 2007: Colorado is a nice place, we like it. I wouldn't worry about him. If you and he are not longer together, why do you continue to keep track of his actions. What you do is move on, and stop worrying about those who are stuck on themselves. It's not ... (read in full...)
She feels dirty.
Q. Alright...I recently found out that my girlfriend of over a year and half cheated on me. This guy kissed her and tried to put the "moves" on her but she said she stopped it. She said this guy made her feel like I used to make her feel when we were ...
A. 10 November 2007: Your welcome and take care.... (read in full...)
I want to give my baby to a couple I know.
Q. im 5wks pregnant and want to give my baby to a couple i know personally who cant have children of their own - is this possible? i was going to tell the biological father that i aborted the child. can i leave the fathers name blank on he birth ...
A. 10 November 2007: I can't and refuse to go into too much detail. Reason being, your possible actions is fraud. You don't want to do what you listed. If you got away with it, and the truth came out later, you can spend real jail time for doing something like this.
Y... (read in full...)
She feels dirty.
Q. Alright...I recently found out that my girlfriend of over a year and half cheated on me. This guy kissed her and tried to put the "moves" on her but she said she stopped it. She said this guy made her feel like I used to make her feel when we were ...
A. 10 November 2007: People do sometimes makes choices that can compromise their position. Even though she invited him over, It still doesn't justify him to make unwanted advances.
I'd still have her seek some counseling. Even small advances can hurt and last a long... (read in full...)
What to do about mom's boyfriend.
Q. My mom has this boyfriend who I really just dislike. He's mean and yells and gets mad for the smallest reasons, like forgeting to put aways a plate. And my mom is trying to make me like him better then my own father but thats not going to happen ...
A. 10 November 2007: Do you ever speak to your dad about this? You can always talk to a counselor at school. I live in a different city than my kids did. I got a call one evening, their mom and her bed buddy were fighting. My daughter asked me to come right away and ... (read in full...)
She feels dirty.
Q. Alright...I recently found out that my girlfriend of over a year and half cheated on me. This guy kissed her and tried to put the "moves" on her but she said she stopped it. She said this guy made her feel like I used to make her feel when we were ...
A. 10 November 2007: On her own, nope, but with help in doing so, yea she can get over it.
She needs to realize, he tried to take advantage of her, that's not her doing It was his. Can't really blame yourself for something someone else does. The put a stop to it, so s... (read in full...)
I feel my boss is favouring my co-worker over me!
Q. I have been at my current job for almost 5 years. For the most part I enjoy my job and have always been a hard worker. A little over a year ago the boss hired new consultants. They have made sweeping changes, some good some not so good.I recently ...
A. 10 November 2007: You can either speak to upper management, or file a claim with the Department of Employment, for violation under the equal pay for equal work act.... (read in full...)
Why am I so over sensitive all the time?
Q. I'm starting to get seriously worried; I'm gettting to over sensitive. Every nasty comment or intention that someone says to someone else I feel the damage and hurt it does to the other person. I can barely have a decent conversation without ...
A. 10 November 2007: You'll be OK. It's fine to feel empathy for what others are going through. The feeling where you can feel there emotions, it's called transference. For some reason your just a bit more open to receiving it. Psychologists go through it all the time. ... (read in full...)
He's looking at teen sites, is he a pedophile
Q. So a little background info: Me and my husband, a US Marine, are both 19, and we got married this year in a quick ceremony. Four days before we got married, I found out (thru snooping in his email that he gave me the password to) that he cheated on ...
A. 9 November 2007: A pedophile is someone who seeks sexual contact with a minor. But, even if he's not making direct contact with them, it is unlawful for him to transport, obtain, solicit, or possess illicit material of minors on his computer, or use his computer for ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 20 September 2007: I am soooo glad to hear you are moving on with your life. It's better for you and your son. You don't want him growing up imitating his dad's behavior. You are a wonderful person and someone who really loves their child and plans to put him first. I ... (read in full...)
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