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writes:i`ve been with my boyfriend for two years but about a year ago i lied to him but i really didnt mean to i was supposed to travel for the weekend then i didnt so i stayed at a hotel with my girl friends then after a week he found out and broke up with me then after 2 month we`re back again,since that we have alot of fights and he always brings this thing up he cant forgive me or even forget i really did my best to fix things up but nothin is working..everyday i say i`ll leave him but i just cant,im so depressed and i cant take this anymore.i really need someone to tell me what can i do to gain his trust again!
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reader, rcn  +, writes (13 November 2007):
 Then if he's not at all willing to meet you half way to get over this, let him know you tried, he still lives in the past and you're not willing to live like this so it's time to end it and start over. Just make sure if you get into another relationship, keep it truthful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you so much for help,but actually i talked with him alot and he just cant let it go and now whenever i go to any place or do anything he thinks im lyingi did my best to gain his trust again but i cant
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reader, rcn +, writes (13 November 2007):
Some times people hang on to the past. It's brought up in other arguments many times because they know they're in the process of loosing the argument.
First when not arguing you need to ask him how the two of you can move past this. Let him know how your feeling and if you can't get past this how you feel as if you can't remain in the situation.
During that conversation let him know that during conversations or arguments, anytime the past is brought up, you're just going to walk away, and mention the conversation just isn't going anywhere, so when he feels you can discuss the issue without the past then you can discuss it.
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