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*manforever1985
writes:HeyI just tonight think i lost my wife, i have done everything to make her happy and healthy. Then tonight she tells me she wants to leave and move in with a ex-boyfriend who by the way cheated on her over 40 times in 6 months. My question is what do i do to help ease the pain or even possibly get her back. Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, i might be a girl but i can help  +, writes (13 November 2007):
 to be honest your wife has put up with a lot when you marry someone you have made a vow to them which you are sopposed to keep if you knew you couldn't stop cheating. i so surpised she put up with your cheating and if you want my honest opinion you can't get her back you have cheated 1 too many times. i hope this has taught you a lesson, you will never get her back, and maybe in one relationship you will get cheated on and you will know how your wife feels and thats when you might actually learn.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2007): Like i have said in a previous answer, we can do nothing to stop people going out of our lives if that is what they want. If she wants to go back to her ex then you cannot do anything to change her mind. If you did change her mind then you will always be looking over your shoulder and wondering just when she is going to be reunited with him in the future. Let her go and make her mistake. He cheated on her all those times in such a small time span. She must be mad to want to go back with him. I say, let her go, and make a new life for yourself. You deserve better and if she has chosen this life of destruction then let her go.
take care
xx
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reader, rcn  +, writes (13 November 2007):
 Please expand on your information. What are her reasons she give you for wanting to make this change?
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