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Am I ready for sex?

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Question - (12 November 2007) 7 Answers - (Newest, 25 November 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i am 12 years old and i think that i am ready for sex but i dont know....i dream about sex and fantasize about a boys private.....am i ready?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2007):

its illegal before you're 16 for a reason huni go and have sum fun! bein a young carefree with little responsibility doesnt last forever.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2007):

i don't think you are. because everyone has dreams like that and if it's only that stuff you think about then no your not ready becasue there's alot more than that, and that is do you love the person, if you know what condoms are, if you know what birth control is, and if you know ALL the conaquences if you have sex at age 12

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2007):

No, you are not ready to start having sex! I understand you are starting to feel differently towards boys but 12 is not the age to become sexually active. Sex is a huge step that should be in a committed relationship, where both partners know the consequences of sleeping together. At 12 years old, you are not ready to emotionally or physically get involved with someone sexually. Enjoy being young and free, sex is something you can enjoy later on in life!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2007):

No its illegal for a reason. You are to young to even begin to understand the emotional attachments involved when two adults choose to have sex. What you are experiencing is hormone changes in your body, making you infactuated about something you cant have - the fact that you shouldnt do it is what makes it exciting to you. Dont go looking. There are too many strange people that would take advantage of you being nieve.

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A female reader, sexi South Africa +, writes (12 November 2007):

sexi agony auntHi

No you are still very young to have sex. It is just a phase that you are going through and it will pass. You are at an age where you would be thinking about these things but that doesnt mean that you are ready.Your hormone leve;s are changing dur to pubity and it will pass. Just hang in there.

Regards,mail me if you wanna talk

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A male reader, rcn United States +, writes (12 November 2007):

rcn agony auntPeople begin dreaming about this before you're ready. When you're really ready you'll know. Make sure it's right, with the right guy. You can only have your first experience once, make sure it's not one you regret having.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2007):

If you cant say "penis", than I think you probable arn't ready

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