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anonymous
writes:i recently startyed a relationship with a man which ive just found out hes married and has been for 9 years,the thing is i said yes for it to carrie on,but now im having second minds im single and i do find that im really enjoying myself but i also know that im having some type of affair im also aware that someone can find out but its very hush hush at the mo.plz any advice would be great
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (12 November 2007):
 You are wasting precious time when you could be out there finding a wonderful man who is willing to share his entire life with you not just stolen bonking moments.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2007): What do you mean you accepted to carry on with this?! Dump the fool!!
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reader, one love +, writes (11 November 2007):
Hes only using you.Please from a wifes point of view dont waste ur time with him.If you have no kids of ur own u could have the time of ur life WITH SOMEONE WHO REALLY CARES FOR U not what u have to offer.Just think if he will cheat on his wife for u what would he do for the next piece that comes along after u.
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reader, kenny +, writes (11 November 2007):
 I think that you should finish the affair with this married man, this guy is decieving his wife, and his kids, (if he has any). Married guys never leave their wives, so ultimately you become the bit on the side, or mistress, however you want to term it. He really does have his cake and eat it, he gets to be with you when he can sucessfully sneak away, then crawl slimily back to the marrital bed when he is done. You are second fiddle and if you let it carry on you always will be. Drop this guy now and find a guy that does not come with marrital attachments, for i feel if you let it go on, tears & heartache is the only outcome.
All the best x
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reader, rcn +, writes (11 November 2007):
 Let me ask you this. If you were the wife, would you condone this affair with your husband and another girl? How would you feel? Put yourself in her shoes, and knowing her husband is out with you while she's at home taking care of the house.
It's OK to want to enjoy yourself, but find someone who's able to give his whole self to you and not the small part outside his marriage.
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