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In love with the man I'm having an emotional affair with, but don't have the strength to leave my husband.

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Question - (14 November 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 15 November 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I've been having an emotional affair with a guy i work with for 4 years, we email all the time. he also sees someone we both work with. I am married. I am in love with him, but don't have the strength to leave my husband.Any advice?

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A male reader, eddie Canada +, writes (15 November 2007):

eddie agony auntDo you have kids? If you can not be faithful to your husband, perhpas you should move out and leave him and the children. Let them have a chance to have a happy female role model in the house. The most important thing is to determin if you've spent any time trying to work on your marriage. Stop acting like a teenager.

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A male reader, rcn United States +, writes (14 November 2007):

rcn agony auntIf I was having an emotional affair with someone, who would just up and leave their husband. That would tell me to turn the other direction and run. And this other man is seeing someone too, and having this emotional affair. So I guess he finds cheating is an OK behavior. If you were with him, you probably wouldn't be the only one. You need to understand this. Women aren't that much different than each other. Two arms, Two legs, body parts guys are attracted too, so if you're attracted to a guy, who is seeing someone else changes are with you his behavior is going to be the same, unless you have some magic wand. He's playing with you mentally and physically playing with another, I guess that must be why they're called players.

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