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writes:we are james and alvina. we were so happy together. but unfortunately, my(james)parents hated alvina so much. they smashed my phone, called alvina's college, put me on home detention, and even worst, bang me on the wall and threatened me to delete all my photos in the computer. they also invade all me privacy.what can we do to stop this suffering?james and lvina Reply to this Question
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (8 July 2008):
 im guessing that you are both 18 or over - so technically you are adults. unless its different in your country. james' parents are stepping over boundaries, and i would advise you to keep all the proof you can of any action they take and report them as being abusive. this is illegal. no two ways about it.
could you maybe move in with a relative or a friend?
email me please, i would love to help you guys more. xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2008): Why do they hate Alvina so much? Has she been mean to them or to you? Or has your behavior changed or deteriorated since you've been with Alvina? When people don't elaborate and keep the questions short and vague, I always take it to mean that you are hiding alot of the story so that you can get favorable point of views. Look I agree that your parents behavior is way off the wall. No matter what is going on with you and Alvira, they shouldn't be behaving that way (deleting photos?! that's crazy!). But I also wonder what is going on between you and Alvina that is upsetting them so much. If you could elaborate on your relationship and on the situation in general, I could give you a better judgment of what I see is wrong and how to help you.
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reader, rcn  +, writes (8 July 2008):
 The way this was written, I have to ask this. Are james and lvina the same person, or two separate individuals?
I agree with the other poster. Either way, the parents behavior is stepping over the boundaries of being legal. I'd tell them to stop, or action will be taken to have them stopped.
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reader, happytochat +, writes (8 July 2008):
What your parents have done to you James is illegal. You should report this assault to the police so your parents know they can not get away with such behaviour. That way they will be forced to talk to you calmly about not likeing your gf.
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