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writes:How do I tell my live in boyfriend that things need to change or it's not going to work between us? I'm 33 weeks pregnant. I got pregnant the 1st date. Things were good at first but I told him we rushed into things. His parents just kind of packed his stuff and his daughters stuff and told us to take it. I love him and his daughter dearly, but I feel overwhelmed with responsibility right now. We hardly talk, rarely go out alone. He is good to me financially, doesn't go out, but I'm bored. He just wants to watch tv, no talking no sex. Always in a bad mood or so it seems. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, rcn +, writes (9 July 2008):
 You are both facing a big change. First date and end up pregnant. That's how my beautiful 8 year old daughter joined my life. All though it didn't happen as planned, I wouldn't change it for the world.
The best thing to do is to be honest with him. Don't beat around the bush avoiding the issue. The more you do that, the harder it becomes and the more precious time your wasting. Quite often people develop a routine, and that routine can be damaging, but until it's brought to their attention, it will remain as it's okay to continue. I'd sit him down and have a heart to heart talk with him
Take care.
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