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writes:i have a 13month son, and have been suffering with postnatal depression. my partner, has left us. saying that we no longer get on as i'm not the same person anymore. how do i get him back Reply to this Question
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reader, jayjay1002 +, writes (4 April 2008):
 Hi! My boyfriend left me when my daughter was 6 weeks old. He went and married his ex girlfriend. It took me a couple of years to get over him, but keeping him from my daughters life was the best thing I ever did. I am still on my own but am very happy till I meet the right person.
And you will be in time. Just enjoy your baby.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (3 April 2008):
 I think a little more information is need here. Are you being treated for your depression? Are you feeling better? Was he aware that you were suffering from Post-natal depression? Was it clinically diagnosed?
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify +, writes (3 April 2008):
 if you cannot trust him to be there for you when you are in need of help then he is of no use in your life at all.
it is difficult to deal with people who have mental health problems but leaving them because you find it is a bit of a bummer is shallow and very weak. not only has he dumped a child on you in terms of sole reponsibilty, he did it when you needed him most.
this has shown he has no backbone and believe me he will do it again...
you only want him back because it seems like the easy option and it may well be but for how long before he dumps you again which he will if anything difficult happens at all.
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reader, raima  +, writes (3 April 2008):
 before answering your question i would like to ask you something.....what is love to you? is it related to your beauty of face or beauty of your heart. true love never love beauty it can see only true heart feelings and that type of relation will never end up. so dear just think y he left you. dont blame yourself if you are right may be your partner is unlucy he never understand your love so you are lucy thats y before late you got chance to live happily. only i have to say one thing true love will never leave. so forget your bed experienbce and think about your future dont look beyond and cry be happy and welcome your happy and new life with joy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2008): All I can say is.....
Why would you want him back if he does this to you. I would ask myself if I were you .....Am i not worth more or better than this? You can sit him down and tell him about what your body and mind is going through right now and if he is as cold and uncompassionate as he seems to be.... then let him go I say. He is just not worth it and wasting your time when you could be finding the love of your love and not even be knowing it.... he could be right around the corner waiting for you now. Don't waste anymore time and please try to get on with your life without him. We only get one life... so I say..... if talking odesn't help.... go find someone else... we only have one life... make the most out of it.
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