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writes:there is a man i work with and i don't know what to make of his behavior. i want to know if he is just goofing off, relieving some boredom making our day a little interesting, or if he is really interested. he has been looking down my shirt and i let him. the other day, he asked me to show him my boobs so i did.everyone was gone. just us. i told him i wanted to see his penis and he showed me. i could not help myself. i bent down and put it in my mouth. but...he did not even show any signs of excitement. we are both married. the main reason i am asking is i definetly am not his type at all (i am overweight)this has been going on for years as far as harmless flirtations. he has mentioned before that he would never run around on his wife. now i am wondering what's up!
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (8 April 2008):
 Somewhere in the office, somebody has just paid off a bet. Hope there's no security cameras around for your sake.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2008): The only comment I have to make is that your a shocker, and a slapper to behave this way. If you are only concerned about his interest in you, or if he is just goofing around, then all I can say is that your reputation and willingness to be something pretty nasty will be his only interest. You could be the equivalent of 'live fucked up fetishes for this guy'. I suppose it is cheaper than buying the magazines and dvds for him.
But it is clear you both are just something to assist each other in engaging in grubby and slutty behaviours. There really is no question or advice to give here, what you are doing speaks for itself.
Happy flacid cock sucking doll!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2008): You have to be aware that he may behave the way he does with you, with other people outside work, perhaps the lack of reaction was guilt, wanting to do something but his conscience not allowing it. Dont take it personally, I think you lack confidence as you have been deprived of sex within your marriage, its nice to get the attention and excitment from elsewhere.
I think you need to speak to your husband with regards to the sex issue issue, although its not the be all and end all its not fair that one of natures greatest pleasures has been taken from you. Dont stay within an unhappy marriage because your husband is ill, if there is nothing there any longer, you both deserve to be happy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks all.. you have made me realize that i have a problem. i do like the attention i get from this man. i am in a marraige where there has been no sex for years. so hell yes, i enjoy it. the sex problem in my marriage is due to my husband and his health. he just does not care about sex anymore. and here i am in my sexual prime, a very erotic woman. about my weight, i am not grossly overweight , just don't weigh 120. i am healthy, (not happy), i do think i am pretty and dress well.
this man at work has confided to me that his wife "does not give him any" so i kind of figured we were just making our boring lives a little more exciting.i would not sleep with this man. yes i probably would perform oral on him.
and to Collaroy....no, I was not joking. The man never even got semi-hard which got me to thinking, omg...is there really something wrong with me? i have never had that happen before. that is why i say i am not his type. but still confused because come on guys, a woman takes you in her mouth, come on, why would you not have a little of reaction.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (7 April 2008):
 I don't think your husband or his wife would consider this to be harmless flirtation. I think you both have a screw loose somewhere. What kind of behavior is this? Show some class and stop this nonsense.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008): Apart from being married if you are happy to do these things then thats fine but if you are not and you feel uncomfortable with what he is asking then it is sexual harassment, dont know how you would explain putting his penis in your mouth but knock it on the head, these things get out of hand.
Also, you mentioned not messing his wife around but you dont seem so concerned about the wellbeing of your own marriage, perhaps you should throw your energy into fixing the cracks in your own relationship, if you are not happy end it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008): it sounds like he's just having fun to pass the time. if you aren't happy in your marriage, then you need to work that out with your husband rather than trying to satisfy yourself behind his back. don't risk your marriage over a man that doesn't appear to reciprocate the feelings you have for him.
in addition, just because you're overweight doesn't mean you are unattractive. As long as you are healthy and happy with your self and your body it doesn't matter what size you are. if you believe you are beautiful, other people will see it too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008): oh dear what are you thinking? loose some weight, sort out your own marraige, quit your job if you have to. From what I can tell you just sound like a desperate slapper. He is just as bad. What if his wife or your husband found out??? I am shocked!
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (7 April 2008):
 O.K.. this is a joke right?
you put his penis in your mouth and it showed no signs of excitement. good grief.
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