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... Send *indyCares a private message | | | *indyCares's profile:Hi everybody. I am an Italian woman currently living in Italy but I spent many years in England and USA. I hope my English is still decent but in case it got a little rusty, please be lenient.
My age ? Let say that I am way past the stage when you cry if the boy you like takes your best friend to the prom, and young enough to remember how awful that feels.
What qualifies me to help people- well, let me show off just a bit and mention that I studied Psychology 4 years in college, and, even if then I graduated in a different subject, I never lost my interest in psychology and kept reading a lot about this subject. Yet that does not really qualify me for anything because intellectual knowledge is not the same as real life experience. So let's say I feel I can advice people because I have lived a lot, travelled a lot, met a lot of people from all backgrounds , races and religions- I have loved a lot, and I have also been dumped a lot :)
Plus, I am really fascinated with people and their stories. Not in a gossipy way. I just find that every person is a whole new world that I am excited to discover.
Right now I am single- and happily so. I realized- better late than never - that rather than waiting for Prince Charming I should first become a Princess myself. You can't love anybody unconditionally, if first you don't love yourself unconditionally, and this is what I am learning to do.
Looking forward to hear from all of you..
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And did he not run straight back to YOU after one week from breaking up with her ?...
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I mean, it's not ... (read in full...)
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It also means, as YouWish says, that he is a self centered loser. Sort of tryng to close the door without slamming it hard ... not because he is such a great guy who'... (read in full...)
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I guess that you hoped for more beca... (read in full...)
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A. 12 May 2015: Abnormal ? you are not abnormal, OP- it's not like in the past 3000 years or so, women have been much encouraged to express a free, guiltless sexuality !...whatever religion they followed.
Anyway, I am piping in just because I thought the same... (read in full...)
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There are HIS kids, boy and girl , OK.
Then there is " our " son ( yours and his ) kid.
But then , you say we moved with the kidS ( plural ) from my home... (read in full...)
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Due to the many posts that we get from women who get offended / insecure if they do not get daily ( or hourly ! ) texts with " Hi " , " Miss you " " I'm at work... (read in full...)
I texted him but he didn't respond. Did I cross the line?
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We've been dating for 3 months but he never wants to call or text?
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Yes, that in my book would be a stupid reason to break up, ( unless he wanted to break up anyway and took the first excuse you offered him ). But , I would let it be over... (read in full...)
Should I drop a hint to my girlfriend that my birthday is coming up soon?
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I had a fall out with a friend and then she asked me to be the maid of honor in her wedding. Why?
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I now try to avoid her. Would it be wrong to ignore my co-worker when she says 'hi' to me at work?
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A. 11 May 2015: Actually I did not suggest that you should associate with this person or hang out or be buddies, just that you showed her that minimal degree of civility that's customary in a workplace. It's not about what "interests " you, it's about what's ... (read in full...)
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What lacks in your attitude,and that of some other poster, is a bit of empathy.
Yes, you are doing everything right, you are having sex , but you are an adult using bi... (read in full...)
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A. 10 May 2015: Yes OP, I think you have answered your own question. You are attempting at a more mature age to live that budding female sexuality and sensuality that you were forbidden to express when you were 14 or so.
Actually, with all the 13 , and 12 ! y.... (read in full...)
How can I get over feeling I'm too old to have a girlfriend at 26? How should I flirt, talk to and approach women?
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A. 10 May 2015: And ?... Do you expect to be the only human being who's spared any pain and frustration in their life ?...
Are you entitled to feel only happy, positive emotions ?
Pain and frustration at some point belong to everybody's life. Some people a... (read in full...)
Is it wrong or weird that I'm kind of jealous of younger women?
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A. 10 May 2015: In other words, you are just lazy- you'll only do what's easy and comfy.
Anything that you never tried, and that you don't have an inborn talent for, is hard and awkward at the beginning. That's part of the process of learning.
If you want to ... (read in full...)
I now try to avoid her. Would it be wrong to ignore my co-worker when she says 'hi' to me at work?
Q. One of my co worker pointed out that I had put on weight in front of other 2 co workers that she works with on her overnight shifts. Then she was like ``Canadians don't want to be told ``with smile on her face. Then she had the nerve to ask me if I ...
A. 10 May 2015: Maybe it would not be " wrong " but it would be like shooting at flies with a cannon. The punishment does not befit the crime.
Ok, obviously your colleague had a foot-in-mouth moment while she should have known better. Then again, why are you ... (read in full...)
If he announces he just wants a romp with no sex, would that be a deal-breaker?
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A. 9 May 2015: Hard to say without being put on the spot, but, yeah, personally I would not be interested
Why ? because in your scenario, it has all the markings of a casual hook up, or ONS, and I could not be bothered. Honestly, I can't CARE if he has "goo... (read in full...)
I hated my job so I quit and now my husband is very unhappy with me
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A. 9 May 2015: So when it's good it's good - but when it's bad it's incredibly bad.
Also a good nature has to learn to set basic boundaries, to establish dealbreakers.
You say that the good outweighs the bad , it seem to me that at most it outNUMBERS it, beca... (read in full...)
Our three-year anniversary is a week from now and I need some ideas!
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A. 8 May 2015: Presents : They sell candle making kits, you could make her an anniversary scented candle or set of candles in her favourite colour, with her nickname on ,or the date when you met, etc.
Or : Go buy some really stylish, expensive, old fash... (read in full...)
My ex makes me doubt myself and feel worthless, but I still have to see him because of our child!
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Why are (many) women disgusted by sexual interest from an older man?
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His behavior toward my belongings was vindictive and unstable. I think I am being emotionally abused!
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A. 8 May 2015: I am sorry about what happened, but I am afraid nobody can really help you but yourself,when you'll finally admit that there's no fixing this. This man is unstable, and potentially dangerous. He sounds like a raging alcoholisr too- and if he is ... (read in full...)
I know she loves me, but she doesn't show the affection I'd like her to!
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A. 8 May 2015: I know this is a disappointing answer but...., what about accepting this is how she is, and that different people have different needs for physical closenessa and intimacy. You may be heaven for some women - and way too much for others. ( I was not ... (read in full...)
How can I saw no without causing offence? Should family be putting this pressure on me, hinting that they want to come to stay?
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A. 7 May 2015: @EyesWideOpen. NC ? On the beach...? Yes, but , you know how I talk, EWO, I talk " difficult ", they would not understand me in NC... I need to stay at yours ! Pretty please ? Lol.
Sorry, OP, little inside joke.
OP, I feel your pain, I do. I ca... (read in full...)
Am I being paranoid? Why doesn't my serious boyfriend of almost 1 year invite me to hang out with his coworkers?
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A. 7 May 2015: Uh-oh. Until I was reading the first part of your post, I was inclined to chalk your feelings up to a bit of paranoia.
I mean, it makes sense that at work they would have things lined up for a Wednesday after work. I don't think any company woul... (read in full...)
Was I wrong to send his Mom flowers? My Bf's family treat poorly and bully me.
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A. 7 May 2015: You did nothing wrong, OP. Do no evil, fear no evil. You sent flowers with no hidden agenda, from a kind warm impulse of your heart. You surely did not mean to offend.
If THEY have chosen to take it the wrong way, as if you were trying to musc... (read in full...)
Why are (many) women disgusted by sexual interest from an older man?
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A. 7 May 2015: @ male anon : so, - what would you advocate in lieu of what you perceive as unjust entitlement ?
Sexual marxism-leninism :) ?
" To each according to his own NEEDS, not his own merits " ?
It would be a very interesting experiment. I am pretty ... (read in full...)
Why are (many) women disgusted by sexual interest from an older man?
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A. 6 May 2015: This is the first time after a few years already on Dear Cupid- that I do not understand what exactly we are debating about. Re-inventing hot water :) ?...
Blame it on biology if you wish, but , with few exceptions ( people have their quir... (read in full...)
I get separation anxiety. My Bf is about to be posted overseas. Should I wait for him or breakup now?
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A. 6 May 2015: " like I see it " said it beautifully and detailedly, I'll keep it shorter and simpler:
you do not want to get married WITH THIS GUY. You want to get married, period. And this guy seemed the type who could be convinced to follow the program ( al... (read in full...)
Every man I've ever been involved with has sought out porn featuring women who look different than me!
Q. Why does every man I'm with seem to prefer the typical porn star look to me . Without fail every man I've ever been involved with has sought out potn Witb womrn who are compeltely different to me , usually young and blonde and thin I'm pretty s...
A. 6 May 2015: Hehe. Freudian slip ? I meant obviously " FLAWED, imperfect me ".... (read in full...)
Every man I've ever been involved with has sought out porn featuring women who look different than me!
Q. Why does every man I'm with seem to prefer the typical porn star look to me . Without fail every man I've ever been involved with has sought out potn Witb womrn who are compeltely different to me , usually young and blonde and thin I'm pretty s...
A. 6 May 2015: You've got good advice alreday, but I want to try adding another angle.
You say you suspect that your exes settled for second best with you, and that if they could have " done better " they would.
Well, don't we all ? Including you ? Don't we... (read in full...)
Is it wrong or weird that I'm kind of jealous of younger women?
Q. Women it seems, are generally valued for their youth more than men are, despite me being a guy, as in human male, there are times I am jealous, envious of how women are valued for their youth more than men are. The reason why is because i'm a gu...
A. 5 May 2015: OP, do you know what's the REAL long and short of it ?
That , if you had spent one quarter of the time you are spending researching "first time " issues on this and other on line forums... by joining instead some salsa dance class, or Meetup grou... (read in full...)
What am I doing wrong to annoy so many people? I keep having this problem where I lose fiends.
Q. I keep having this problem where I lose friends because of breaking up with/losing interest/not being interested in the first place. I guess my problem is two-fold. I could be friends with a group of people (mixed genders), we get along fine, we...
A. 5 May 2015: To annoy people you act, well, annoying :)? and not age- appropriate.
The silly/giddy/aw shucks / running around hydrants thing is cute when you are 16, - 10 years later is only CUTESY, and eye-roll inducing - YOU have fun, but the other peop... (read in full...)
Is it wrong or weird that I'm kind of jealous of younger women?
Q. Women it seems, are generally valued for their youth more than men are, despite me being a guy, as in human male, there are times I am jealous, envious of how women are valued for their youth more than men are. The reason why is because i'm a gu...
A. 22 April 2015: I don't know about "sleeping around " as in : becoming a certified player or Don Juan. That may take some doing , I guess, or a natural vocation.
For the rest , i. e. for young males wanting to have ther first sexual experience (s ) , that... (read in full...)
Is it wrong or weird that I'm kind of jealous of younger women?
Q. Women it seems, are generally valued for their youth more than men are, despite me being a guy, as in human male, there are times I am jealous, envious of how women are valued for their youth more than men are. The reason why is because i'm a gu...
A. 21 April 2015: Life is not fair , OP.
So,you believe that it is your biological imperative being the initiator . Which is not true, btw. There are women, including yours truly, who will not mind taking the initiative, and I assure you that I may belong to a mino... (read in full...)
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