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30-35,
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writes:I was out one night with my friend at a bar and this guy opposite me kept looking at me, we proceeded to go to a club very near by and I turned around and not long after, he was coming into the club as well. As the night went on I saw him again. He sort of moved over near to our table and my friend started speaking to him, then she went of and him and I started speaking which ended up being for honestly hours. He bought me a few drinks, and we just clicked. It was like we had known each other for ages. We flirted and I showed I was interested, and told him he was very attractive etc. Near the end of the night, I asked for his number and he asked what I was doing for the rest of the night and he 'invited me to his hotel'. I told him I wasn't going to go home with him-in a nice way of course. He took my number and sort of walked me out of the club, and I reached over to him and kissed him on the neck. I haven't heard from him and it's been about a week now. He also said he wasn't going to be in the city for very long(meaning leaving in the next few days)
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (12 May 2015):
 Yes, I will also guess that he was on the prowl for a NSA hook up and that HE NOTICED you, noticing him, so he followed you to the club and found a way to converse with you, hoping that you interest in him was sexual.
If SEX was his goal and you turned him down, he didn't see a point to wasting any more time.
Getting your number means nothing. Unless he will be coming back to your town and hope to line you up for another try at NSA sex.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (12 May 2015):
 Because he was just passing through your city or town, and looking for some NSA action, OP- not for starting a long distance romance. When you denied him your cooperation for the night, he lost interest.
I guess that you hoped for more because sidetracked by the fact that he invested in a few hour of conversation with you, but do not forget that he had time to kill anyway, chatting up a pretty girl is better than watching Tv alone in your hotel room. And / or he had figured that it would take 2 or 3 hours of socializing to soften you up
before you'd say yes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2015): He was obviously just looking for sex, and when you didn't accept his invite to go back to the hotel with him, he saw no reason to talk to you again. He probably did enjoy the good conversation with you, however at the end of the day, he was still only looking for a one night stand. He was leaving the city in a few days, so it makes sense he would not look for something serious and long term.
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