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... Send *indyCares a private message | | | *indyCares's profile:Hi everybody. I am an Italian woman currently living in Italy but I spent many years in England and USA. I hope my English is still decent but in case it got a little rusty, please be lenient.
My age ? Let say that I am way past the stage when you cry if the boy you like takes your best friend to the prom, and young enough to remember how awful that feels.
What qualifies me to help people- well, let me show off just a bit and mention that I studied Psychology 4 years in college, and, even if then I graduated in a different subject, I never lost my interest in psychology and kept reading a lot about this subject. Yet that does not really qualify me for anything because intellectual knowledge is not the same as real life experience. So let's say I feel I can advice people because I have lived a lot, travelled a lot, met a lot of people from all backgrounds , races and religions- I have loved a lot, and I have also been dumped a lot :)
Plus, I am really fascinated with people and their stories. Not in a gossipy way. I just find that every person is a whole new world that I am excited to discover.
Right now I am single- and happily so. I realized- better late than never - that rather than waiting for Prince Charming I should first become a Princess myself. You can't love anybody unconditionally, if first you don't love yourself unconditionally, and this is what I am learning to do.
Looking forward to hear from all of you..
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19 August 2014: Yeah I know : ultimately love is a mystery, not an exact science. There's always an element of sheer luck, of serendipity, of magic in it. Some times you do everything right, by the book, you are the perfect gf / wife / lover .. and you still get ...
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I'm afraid he'll never feel ready for anything more than dating!
Q. The problem I'm having could be easily summed up as "I want to move in together but he doesen't". I don't know, I love that guy, he's the best thing that's ever happened to me, but I'm afraid he'll never feel ready for anything more than dating. ...
A. 8 June 2015: Or, why do you have to be so "old ":).
I mean, I think it makes perfect sense that moving in with a Gf , after one year of dating, and still in school full time and going for his master's degree , has no special appeal and is no priority for a 23... (read in full...)
What could be the reasons why he doesn't want to talk to me any more?
Q. Hey we broke up and I have sent him messages at least four times online with breaks of 1 to 2 weeks he has never responded. The messages haven't received the blue double ticks yet, so I tried reaching out on facebook for the last time. He hasn't ...
A. 6 June 2015: It may be hard to believe for you, but in fact it happens quite often. Things sizzle when everything is new - and pretty soon sizzle. The fact is that " intense feelings " is not the same as DEEP feelings. In fact, in a way it may be a bad sign ... (read in full...)
My Bf's Mom told him to break up with me, though we are still dating. How do I handle her interference?
Q. I have been dating this guy we live together in our own little apartment for 2 years, 90% of our fights is about his mom and younger sister. His sister is the same age as me. His Mom and his sister will come to our apartment without me knowing ...
A. 6 June 2015: Ok , let me start by saying that honestly I don't get what's your problem ,if once in a while he goes for a stroll in the mall with mom and sis but without you. What's wrong with that ? Unless it's every day !- but you are bf and gf, not Siamese ... (read in full...)
Can a married man fall in love with another woman, yet never leave his wife?
Q. Can a married man fall in love with another woman he has been with for 2-3 years but never leave his wife?...
A. 6 June 2015: Apparently yes. If we have to believe stats, they do it all the time, since only about 3% of cheaters end up with leaving their wives for the mistress they had started an affair with.... (read in full...)
He says there is is no need to spend on me until we get married!
Q. I'm 24year plus and my guy is 30 plus we both love eachother despite i was aware that he had a child out of wedlock and he is a contractor by proffession and im a pertime student and working as a secretary in a small studio where i earn little ...
A. 6 June 2015: Seeing that you posted about this already, that means , I guess, that you are on of those posters who keep reposting until they get the answer THEY wanted all along.
Sure, if you keep asking, maybe sooner or later you'll find someone who'll answ... (read in full...)
I feel my ex only thinks and cares about his own needs only, advice please!
Q. My ex lives with me for a yr now. He doesnt pay for anything at all including rent. Hes bought a jetski thats been fixed on off and dies again on off. He spent so much money on the jski and none on his 2kids. Hes always telling me that I should ...
A. 6 June 2015: Funny. First you criticize him because he spends money on his jetski but not on his kids - then you say " he tells me I should put my kids first but how can I if he always asks for money ?... " .So, when he deprives his kids , to spend on futilies ... (read in full...)
I seem to have outgrown my circle of friends ....
Q. I don't particularly like any of my friend group anymore. They still act like teenagers. I rarely reply to group WhatsApp conversations because I just can't relate to it it's usually so childish. When I do respond... I'm usually ignored. I don't ...
A. 4 June 2015: I think it's pretty normal, OP. You outgrow people in your life ( and / or they outgrow you )- You just evolve gradually in different directions, take different life paths, until one day you just do not find much pleasure in being around them- and ... (read in full...)
We messaged as friends after the breakup. So why the change in her tone, after so long?
Q. Hi guys Apologies in advance for this mammoth of an essay! I broke up with my girlfriend 2 years ago. It was a mutual thing (we realised we had different ambitions and priorities) and we managed to remain friends afterwards, even meeting...
A. 4 June 2015: Yes, .. and not to be nitpicking, but ...that would mean that you have continued talking in a cozy, intimate and inappropriate way for one whole year or more, AFTER you had broken up. It takes two to tango, so she did wrong too in allowing a ... (read in full...)
We messaged as friends after the breakup. So why the change in her tone, after so long?
Q. Hi guys Apologies in advance for this mammoth of an essay! I broke up with my girlfriend 2 years ago. It was a mutual thing (we realised we had different ambitions and priorities) and we managed to remain friends afterwards, even meeting...
A. 3 June 2015: Sorry but I think in THIS particular case her bf has all the right to " pass judgement "- or at least to make no bones about the fact that your interaction makes him uncomfortable.
" Cutesy " language with your ex ; because you are friends ? Who ... (read in full...)
Do men see ''love'' and ''future'' differently?
Q. Do men have different opinion of “love” and “future”? I have been seeing a guy for almost three years. He is constantly telling me he loves me, but lately if feel there is something not right, that I might not be more than a friend with benefits...
A. 3 June 2015: Maybe they do not see " love " and " future " differently- they just see " love " and " marriage " differently.
Love and marriage are supposed to go together like horse and carriage, but not for everybody. Particularly in your ( ours ) age rang... (read in full...)
I understand that he was unwell but why is he treating me in this way?
Q. So I went on a trip with my coworker who I met 1.5 months ago. We both have free flight benefits and i slept with him the week before we went on a vacation, like after our 5th date. I wanted to know him better and I really like him and he told me ...
A. 2 June 2015: Then you'd better let him know - and be clear about your wants and needs.
You tell him, no I am not coming over. Or no ,you are not coming over.
He asks Why ?.... No need to be coy, sly or shy. Be honest . Tell him : I am not looking for some... (read in full...)
Can women realistically start a family past 30?
Q. I suppose the purpose of this question is to hear from women who have started a family after the age of 30. Those of you in the UK might have seen that a top fertility doctor has just said publicly that women who want kids should try before t...
A. 2 June 2015: Lol ! As Honeypie notes, ... maybe we never got THAT memo here in Italy. AVERAGE age for first childbirth is now around 31.5 , and 25 % or 30% , can't quite remember, of all children are born from mothers over 40.
In our society iT is like... (read in full...)
My boyfriend will not apologize for standing me up!
Q. After looking everywhere on the Internet for an answer, I feel like I should ask my very own question out there. Boyfriend of 8 months is usually wonderful, I know that he does his very best for me and our relationship. He's very committed and ve...
A. 1 June 2015: You gotta be kidding ,male anon. I am sure that your mom raised you better than that !
Just " sorry " is OK when you inadvertently stomp on somebody's foot on the bus.
When you go MIA on your GF , keeping her waiting and worrying ,no explanat... (read in full...)
I'm living with Hydrocephalus and my parents aren't allowing me to make my own decisions!
Q. Hello, I am a student who is looking to transfer from community college to WSU Vancouver next year but my parents won't let me move. The reason why is because I have a hydrocephalus VP shunt and they believe the school is too far from home when it ...
A. 1 June 2015: Then imagine how thinking of your sudden death makes THEM depressed !
OP, I think you need to be sensible and pragmatical.
While , on one hand, there's no reason why you could not live a LONG, happy, productive life- on the other hand you have... (read in full...)
Can you think of examples where a woman initiated a relationship? I need some examples to demolish my long held view that this never happens.
Q. Because it seems, to me, that all boyfriend and girlfriend relationships are still initiated by the guy, where the man approaches the woman first, talks to her first and asked her out first, initiated everything or almost everything in the ...
A. 1 June 2015: I disagree with the last poster, women approaching men ( - at least, men who somehow have given them green light and signalled some possible interest ) may still be a minority,... but not a RARITY . It's two different concepts altogether !
A... (read in full...)
I understand that he was unwell but why is he treating me in this way?
Q. So I went on a trip with my coworker who I met 1.5 months ago. We both have free flight benefits and i slept with him the week before we went on a vacation, like after our 5th date. I wanted to know him better and I really like him and he told me ...
A. 1 June 2015: Uhm.... because he is not THAT into you. He may take you or leave you , so he gets to dictate all terms and conditions, he does not even try to be on his best behaviour and impress you,- or simply to be a nice , pleasant ,attentive companion for ... (read in full...)
So men, does it have to be one or the other? Do you think he just doesn't want me?
Q. I am a good person, devoted and loyal to my boyfriend. Problem is his porn addiction and total obsession with woman, his rude comments hurt and he knows I don't like it, but hasn't stopped. Sex is very rare and mostly he wants oral sex. I'm lonely ...
A. 1 June 2015: You say he has an ADDICTION and any addiction is a time, thought, and energy consuming preoccupation that detracts a lot from what a person can devote to his sexual / relational life.
You feel it more because sex is more " personal " insofar you ... (read in full...)
Why is boyfriend online on Whassap during the night? He does not check phone or get up when he stays with me. Is he out flirting or cheating?
Q. Hi all. I know this may come across as a bit of an immature question but my boyfreind got Whassap a couple of months ago and his last seen times are during the night. Sometimes like 4 or 5 AM. When I stay the night with him, he never gets up and ...
A. 1 June 2015: Do you have trust issues- because of his past misdeeds, or perhaps because of YOUR basic insecurities.. ? ( it would be very different , obviously ).
Anyway, FWIW, your concern sounds a bit paranoid. He does not check his phone at night when... (read in full...)
I want to meet my online guy but my parents likely won't allow it
Q. Hey everyone! I really want to meet this guy that I have been having contact with for more than 2 years. We always Skype and usually text or talk on the phone. He's willing to pay for my flight but I have a dilemma. My parents are pretty stric...
A. 31 May 2015: Exactly. Why this fish ,rather than paying for your ticket, does not use the money to pay for his ticket to your pond, and come to show your parents that he is a nice innocuous respectable goldfish and not a potentially very dangerous shark ? ... (read in full...)
He's dragging his feet over a second meeting?
Q. About a month ago I met this great man online. He had some health problems and we weren't able to meet in person for a while but we'd spend long hours texting on Skype or talking on the phone. Finally, the day came in which we met. We spent the ...
A. 31 May 2015: Yep. Either he is far from as keen as he says, or he is very busy... with multiple dating and your number hasn't come up yet.
I would not wait around for his convenience. I am not saying he should be foaming at the mouth , impatient to see you-... (read in full...)
Can you think of examples where a woman initiated a relationship? I need some examples to demolish my long held view that this never happens.
Q. Because it seems, to me, that all boyfriend and girlfriend relationships are still initiated by the guy, where the man approaches the woman first, talks to her first and asked her out first, initiated everything or almost everything in the ...
A. 31 May 2015: I initiated a few times. The most important with the guy I ended up marrying. I initiated our first date, first kiss, first everything. As a matter of fact, I was so used to initiating that when HE asked me to marry him, I had no idea what he ... (read in full...)
Why are women turned off by inexperienced men?
Q. Why does inexperience turn women off ? Why is it that if a guy never had a girlfriend before, he is a turn off to the vast majority of girls that are non-virgins and have had their share of boyfriends or just been in a relationship before, and sadly ...
A. 30 May 2015: But it is simply not true that ALL women are turned off by sexually inexperienced men ! I never was ,for instance- I married one . And although MANY years down the road things went sort of pear shaped , that obviously had nothing to do with ... (read in full...)
He has blocked me and is ignoring me now. So how do I get back the money he owes me?
Q. Dear Cupid I am having on and off relationship with my best friend. We are very close year back, for last 1 year its all going downhill. He is avoiding me, not picking up my calls, telling me lies all the time He blocked me in phone, everywher...
A. 30 May 2015: I am very sorry about your predicament. I am afraid that you have fallen into the hands of some unprincipled conman. A decent person owing you money would have kept the communication lines open even after a fall out / a break up, precisely ... (read in full...)
Do you think someone can have an affair without having sex with another person?
Q. I married my high school gf just over a year ago. Shortly after we got engaged I started working a new job and met this girl named Sarah, she's funny, sweet and we just had tons of fun working together. We started hanging out with each other ...
A. 30 May 2015: Oh , so you haven't had sex with your WIFE in the pasr 11 months .... and that's why you had started sniffing around Sarah as soon as she showed up, right after your ENGAGEMENT ?!( before you HAD a wife )
Don't start with the blame game, OP, your... (read in full...)
Will he really choose love over religion?
Q. I really need some advice. Its tearing me apart. I am a 20 year old non religious female student living in the UK, my current partner is a 19 year old male Muslim student living in the same city as myself. We are head over heals in love with each ...
A. 30 May 2015: That's a difficult question to answer, because what you are really asking us is... to read into your future :). To know if in 4 years he still will be so in love with you as he is now ( I don't mean to jinx you but, you know, at 19... people may ... (read in full...)
How do I win him back and feel better? My Mom and My Aunt don't like him
Q. I fell for this guy; I'm 23 and he's nearly 30. He seems to like me and he's also sexually attracted to me. However, I haven't been able to date him as I was trying to finish off my degree at the time. This is still an on-going problem as I'm s...
A. 29 May 2015: Do you HAVE to win him back ? Like, by doctor's orders ? To save your life ?....
Otherwise I can't see any reason for tryng anything so foolish as " winning " him back. He is no prize. In fact he sounds horrible, and you should have at least that... (read in full...)
Did I mess up asking for a second date?
Q. I'm a 30 year old man and I recently went out on a first date with a 34 year old woman. I had a great time. The next morning, I need to leave to teach a day long rock climbing course (i.e., no cell coverage) and I text her beforehand to say that I ...
A. 29 May 2015: Yes, the reaction is likely to be 50/50 : half huge relief that the guy got the hint, half a pang of guilt for having disapponted him. Or maybe... 70/30 ?... don't forget that, as another poster mentions, current dating etiquette ( particularly ... (read in full...)
Should we carry on or just walk on different paths? We still have feelings for each other, but is that really enough?
Q. Dear Cupid, Thanks for taking the time to read this - whoever you are. I've been with my husband for 3 years. We come from different continents, but met while I was traveling in his country. We traveled together and it was fun at the beginning ...
A. 29 May 2015: Yeah well, like WiseOwlE said too, he might be crying because he sees the gravy train coming to a stop !
Precisely for this reason, although normally I would agree with WiseOwle also on the fact that taking " breaks " in a marriage is neit... (read in full...)
Does this guy deserve another chance? I cut him off and now I miss him
Q. Ok so I use to talk to this guy very heavy, and we were very close into making us official. But along the way he tells me that he just got into a relationship with someone else. So I took it upon myself to just go off on him, and make him feel bad. ...
A. 29 May 2015: So he would talk to you at night, but totally cold shoulder you in public ?.. Easy. Elementary Watson. He never really broke up with the other girl and he was afraid that she might get wind he'd got a parallel gf.
... (read in full...)
I'm considering plastic surgery as I hate my jaw - advice?
Q. I'm in my early twenties. I'm not bad looking otherwise and do get attention but I have a huge jaw and chin (think Olivia Wilde but my chin is really wide too) I am not fat its just genetics. It means smiling with my mouth open looks horrible (I have...
A. 29 May 2015: I googled Olivia Wilde because I remembered the name but not the face, and there were tons of her pics ,in none of which I could detect anything wrong with her jaws ! She is absolutely gorgeous ( minus a too high ,slightly disproportioned brow ... (read in full...)
Do you think someone can have an affair without having sex with another person?
Q. I married my high school gf just over a year ago. Shortly after we got engaged I started working a new job and met this girl named Sarah, she's funny, sweet and we just had tons of fun working together. We started hanging out with each other ...
A. 29 May 2015: Of course you can. It's not all about sex. You ARE having an affair . Or, have you got a better definition for when someone invests in another person the time, attention, emotion, curiosity and enthusiasm that in theory he / she should reserve to ... (read in full...)
Big decisions. Do I stay in my comfort zone? Or should I take a chance with this job offer, despite my Bf's objections?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for seven years now (lived together for five years with his grandparents). I've been on a temporary contract with work for the past year, but I've just been offered a full time permanent position at a new company ...
A. 29 May 2015: Take a chance and spread your wings. I understand that your bf may not be thrilled at the idea ,and that's natural, then again, what is he offering you as an appealing, constructive alternative for your future ?
X more years of... boyf... (read in full...)
Is my wife lying? She says she can't remember back 15 years ago whether the guy had a large penis or not
Q. Ive been married to my wife 15 years. When I first met her, i remember her telling me of a former sex partner who was big in penis size. When i brought that fact up recently, she denies anything was ever big. She says she dont remember even ...
A. 27 May 2015: She TOLD you !- she explained you neat and nicely. It's only that you can't bother to hear , because it's not the answer that you want or expect. Just because it's not an answer you can relate to, or not the one you'd give if YOU were a woman, ... (read in full...)
Is my wife lying? She says she can't remember back 15 years ago whether the guy had a large penis or not
Q. Ive been married to my wife 15 years. When I first met her, i remember her telling me of a former sex partner who was big in penis size. When i brought that fact up recently, she denies anything was ever big. She says she dont remember even ...
A. 27 May 2015: The fact that YOU do not understand something does not make it less true,less witnessed, or less fequent when it happens all the time.
I do not understand how computers work, and yet, here I am posting my answers to you.... (read in full...)
She says she don't remember her ex boyfriends sizes. Could it be?
Q. I am with a girl for about 5 yrs. I like her very much and our sexual life was very beautiful, until 3 months before, when disaster came. Here is what happened: I had never asked her anything about her past, I knew only what she had told me herself ...
A. 27 May 2015: OP, I'd say that, between you and her ,you have amply responded to your questions. The Aunts confirmed.
How big must " he " have been to cause pain ?
Not that big, OP, in fact a small one is enough- as long as you aren't properly lubricat... (read in full...)
Girlfriend and I fought and haven't spoken in a week. We are playing the waiting game but what should I do?
Q. I have been dating my gf for over 3 years now and she accompanied me to the hospital so I could update my hospital card. She said that the office to update my card closes at 4 but when we arrived she pointed out that they close at 3. I innocently ...
A. 27 May 2015: Yes, I had noticed too that at every posting the grabbing seemed to become softer and gentler... nearly fading into a loving caresse....
OP, let's cut to the chase : would you agree to a definition of grabbing as putting your thumb and index ( at... (read in full...)
Should I be allowed a lock on my door?
Q. Hello, opinions on my situation please. I currently live with my step mum dad and little sister. My little sister is my half sister my step mum is her mum. Ive only lived with them for a few months. I used to live with my mum other sister, I was ve...
A. 27 May 2015: Well, OP, it's not really about age or " what everybody does ", that's not really the point.
My own son only moved out at 25 ( and, being that we are in Italy... everybody goes " Oh... so SOON ??! ,LOL ). BUT, my son did not have a wicked step... (read in full...)
I don't really know what happened between us and don't know how to play it??
Q. So I work in a restaurant, and I was at the bar when like the hottest girl in my whole town comes in and orders a drink. She recognises me, and while I'm doing the drink she says "so you've probably seen facebook" and I was like, "erm yeah last I ...
A. 27 May 2015: OP, why are you getting mad ?!
Your post never said if you were looking just for casual sex or for someone to date, so even if some respondents assumed ( wrongly ) that you wanted something more than an ONS, what's so wrong with that. Some peop... (read in full...)
He likes to show me affection but shuts me off when I do the same.
Q. I have been friends with this man for 3 years. We met online and gradually become really close friends. When we become friends, he was living a 1000 miles away from my city, now, he moved to my city, living only a mile away from my home. We meet ...
A. 27 May 2015: Oh...then I am afraid that my opinion will be disappointing to you...Personally, I don't feel he is THAT serious or interested. His aren't really WE statements or WE projects, it's more like involving you in his escapist fantasies.. One thing is ... (read in full...)
Do you think being set up on blind dates will help me?
Q. im kinda shy guy....i cant talk to girls. i try and try but i fail. im not that social but the friends i have are very supporting and they are very good to me....like me n my friends have a strong bond. im cool to talk to my female friends but not ...
A. 27 May 2015: I think it can help you enormously, if you modify your expectations. Like, of finding the one forever . Not that's impossible that you may have a lucky strike, some people HAVE found their soulmates through a blind date.
But- do not start with... (read in full...)
Is my wife lying? She says she can't remember back 15 years ago whether the guy had a large penis or not
Q. Ive been married to my wife 15 years. When I first met her, i remember her telling me of a former sex partner who was big in penis size. When i brought that fact up recently, she denies anything was ever big. She says she dont remember even ...
A. 27 May 2015: OP ! She TOLD you why ! Are you even listening to her... or have you decided that you guessed right ,so whatever she says does not matter now ?!
She told you that she did it because she always felt ugly and like there was something wrong with... (read in full...)
He likes to show me affection but shuts me off when I do the same.
Q. I have been friends with this man for 3 years. We met online and gradually become really close friends. When we become friends, he was living a 1000 miles away from my city, now, he moved to my city, living only a mile away from my home. We meet ...
A. 26 May 2015: Ask him if he wants to get engaged or what.
If you live in a culture of arranged marriages where families gets routinely involved ( such seems to be the case ) he will be perfectly aware that he is compromising you , your perspectives and your... (read in full...)
Should I be allowed a lock on my door?
Q. Hello, opinions on my situation please. I currently live with my step mum dad and little sister. My little sister is my half sister my step mum is her mum. Ive only lived with them for a few months. I used to live with my mum other sister, I was ve...
A. 26 May 2015: Excellent suggestion by EWO. That's what would make more sense.
If for some reason this is just not possible yet, - then it makes more sense if you just go back to your Mom's.
The reason why you left, was because there was Mom plus a wicked s... (read in full...)
Girlfriend and I fought and haven't spoken in a week. We are playing the waiting game but what should I do?
Q. I have been dating my gf for over 3 years now and she accompanied me to the hospital so I could update my hospital card. She said that the office to update my card closes at 4 but when we arrived she pointed out that they close at 3. I innocently ...
A. 26 May 2015: OP, I think you are either sticking to your guns because you are stubborn by nature, or ... you are somewhat clueless and you just don't get it , do you ?
It's quite simple ,actually :
- You do not get to " grab " your gf. There's no somethin... (read in full...)
Did I mess up asking for a second date?
Q. I'm a 30 year old man and I recently went out on a first date with a 34 year old woman. I had a great time. The next morning, I need to leave to teach a day long rock climbing course (i.e., no cell coverage) and I text her beforehand to say that I ...
A. 26 May 2015: I agree, you did not do anything wrong,- and I think you guess eight, it might be a fade away.
Her response to your clear , inequivocable message suggesting a date activity next wekeend was.. lukewarm at best.
If she had been interest... (read in full...)
Is my wife lying? She says she can't remember back 15 years ago whether the guy had a large penis or not
Q. Ive been married to my wife 15 years. When I first met her, i remember her telling me of a former sex partner who was big in penis size. When i brought that fact up recently, she denies anything was ever big. She says she dont remember even ...
A. 26 May 2015: So if you know you are acting stupid... why do you KEEP acting stupid ?
Are you always so suspicious ? She said she does not remember. Period. Are you always questioning anything she says ?
" What did you have for breakfast ? " - Cereals ... (read in full...)
She says she don't remember her ex boyfriends sizes. Could it be?
Q. I am with a girl for about 5 yrs. I like her very much and our sexual life was very beautiful, until 3 months before, when disaster came. Here is what happened: I had never asked her anything about her past, I knew only what she had told me herself ...
A. 26 May 2015: OP, ... you are one frustrating OP :). Do you even BOTHER reading what we write ?
So, no other explanation "but the size " for pain during intercourse ???...
Plenty of explanation, as you'd know if you were a woman. Having sex without being pr... (read in full...)
Should we carry on or just walk on different paths? We still have feelings for each other, but is that really enough?
Q. Dear Cupid, Thanks for taking the time to read this - whoever you are. I've been with my husband for 3 years. We come from different continents, but met while I was traveling in his country. We traveled together and it was fun at the beginning ...
A. 25 May 2015: This sounds like a typical unfortunate case of : marry in haste repent at leisure. Or maybe of " I love you- you are perfect- now change ".
You were attracted to him BECAUSE he was this independent, free spirited wild child, and now you'd like... (read in full...)
She says she don't remember her ex boyfriends sizes. Could it be?
Q. I am with a girl for about 5 yrs. I like her very much and our sexual life was very beautiful, until 3 months before, when disaster came. Here is what happened: I had never asked her anything about her past, I knew only what she had told me herself ...
A. 23 May 2015: Her explanation is totally possible.
Generally women do not pay to what a penis looks like a tenth of the attention than mysteriously men do.
I have seen penises of course, and some of them, I have seen them consistently for years and year... (read in full...)
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