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Ever since I can remember people have always fascinated me. I seemed to be very adept at solving people’s “life” problems and I never tired of the constant flow of friends asking for my help. I have always been a great listener and have a lot of patience and empathy for people and have written for advice columns in the past.
I am a Relationships Councillor and Life Coach and have a special aptitude with people. I have been active on this site for a number of years. I'm very much a positive thinker and hate being around negative people. Life is for living, it's too short to moan all the time. I'm determined, very spiritual, grounded, independent, strong willed and love life. Be careful what you water your dreams with. Water them with worry and fear and you will produce weeds that choke the life from your dream. Water them with optimism and solutions and you will cultivate success. Always be on the lookout for ways to turn a problem into an opportunity for success. Always be on the lookout for ways to nurture your dream.
If you realized just how powerful your thoughts are, you would never think a negative thought. The difference between school and life? In school, you're taught a lesson and then given a test. In life, you're given a test that teaches you a lesson.
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My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 31 May 2007: Tell him to move out, (sooner rather than later or it might be YOU he hits next time,) give him the divorce and let him see his son, he has that right (as long as he sees him sober.)
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My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 25 March 2007: You KNOW the answer, you said so yourself, you just need to put it into practise. For one, you admitted you have too much time on your hands and are bored. You're using this time to get on his bad side. I would advise you to find something to ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 9 March 2007: I would meet with him. When he does come to the house then let him know you're glad he wanted to talk because YOU wanted to talk too. Then let him know that you had already decided that him moving back was NOT going to happen. YOU had changed your ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 6 March 2007: I was shocked to hear how you just rolled over and let him back into your home so easily! Things OBVIOUSLY aren't going well with this other woman but do you really want him back in the house the way things stand? Do you realise the life you're ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 21 February 2007: Keep yourself looking your best, go out and meet other people (like your city friend) it will keep your confidence boosted and that's what you need right now. Continue to let your ex husband see that there is more to life than HIM! Try and ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 18 February 2007: Hey if you want this to work you need to listen to my advice! How many times did I tell you to play it cool with him, being friendly without being needy! The minute you get by yourself you call him and ask him over????? Jeeeeeeeeeeze.... wake up ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 12 February 2007: Oh dear, what a weekend you had. Nothing worse than being with someone you want so much and them to treat you this way. You have to resort to the fact he's made his mind up. "You can take a horse to the water but you can't make it drink." You've ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 9 February 2007: I think you're doing great! You could have flown at him a number of times yet you've kept it together EVEN with your cold so well done there! DON'T ask him to stay over. When he comes to visit be friendly and pleasant. Remember, the plan is to ... (read in full...)
I regret breaking up w/ him, but we weren't getting along b/c of personal matters. Now he's afraid to get back together!
Q. I need some advice... I had been going out with my boyfriend for a year and broke up with him last week.. i am not sure why i did this. at the time my parents were splitting up and one of his close friends had died. we were both being crappy and ...
A. 9 February 2007: I wouldn't mention anything from the past. Start afresh and greet him with a big smile. Tell him he looks great! Ask him how his day was and tell him about yours. Let him know you've missed him too. Keep the conversation light and friendly, ... (read in full...)
He has a girlfriend but I think he really likes me. I caught him looking up my skirt! But we're just friends though so what's he up to?
Q. I'm a bit confused. I have a male friend who has a girlfriend - a pretty serious relationship - but recently he's been quite flirty with me. He stares at me when he thinks I'm not looking and the other day, dropped behind me on the stairs to perv ...
A. 1 February 2007: He likes you as a friend and someone to talk to but he HAS a girlfriend. He likes to flirt but then what guy doesn't, he may even be leading you on but rise above it. Don't get involved with him when he's with someone else, you'll only come off as ... (read in full...)
The guy I'm seeing is a jerk and turns things around like I'm to blame for everything! I'm so confused.
Q. i don't even know where to begin with my problem. I've been seening this guy for a year and a half now. I really love him but he has serious mood swings. For example I was supposed to meet him monday nite, i phoned him when he didn't come at the ...
A. 1 February 2007: Has he always been this way? Can you both usually talk? You need to talk with him and ask him what's going on? If this is just a recent thing that's started happening it may be that he's fed up with the relationship and wants to end it and in ... (read in full...)
She has a boyfriend but has feelings for me as well. They are having problems and I feel like I'm intruding. What should I do?
Q. i'm in love with this girl and she has a boyfriend. i expressed my feelings and turns out she is currently facing some problems with her bf. she currently has feelings for both me and her bf. she is on a "break" with her bf but i feel like i'm ...
A. 1 February 2007: She knows how you feel about her but she has a boyfriend at the moment (albeit they're on a break) and they are having problems. You telling her YOU have feelings for her too will only confuse her more. My advice to you is to back off just now and ... (read in full...)
I know he still loves me, but he writes inappropriate texts, emails and poems. Should I just turn a blind eye?
Q. My husband had an affair two years ago. I took him back. He was accused of sexual harassment at work 3 months ago and it turned out it was a relaitionship although they never slept together. I find love poems he writes, trying to figure out who he ...
A. 1 February 2007: Don't stifle his creativity, if he wants to write poems tell him to write them about YOU! Get him to write about how he feels as a person too. I am very into star signs too and I think they can tell you a lot about a person but he doesn't need to ... (read in full...)
My husband has been using adult dating sites and met two women... how can I trust anything else he says?
Q. Hi i have been married for 7 years but just recently found out that my husband has been on several dating sites for the last 3 years , eroticy and adultfriendfinder plus several more and has a secret email address.. there were emails from many ...
A. 1 February 2007: I can imagine the shock you got when you found out about this.
Okay, there needs to be some boundaries here. You both need to sit down and talk about this. He says he loves you and he doesn't want to seperate from you. Then he needs to delet... (read in full...)
How can I meet someone who doesn't abuse me?
Q. I have several failed relationships, i honestly think it is me. I meet the wrong type. They either hit me or abuse me mentally. I get away from them but the next one turn up and is just as worse, if not worse. How do i meet someone lovely, kind and ...
A. 1 February 2007: You need to believe in yourself more love and be far more choosy who you pick to go out with. Don't just pick the first guy that comes along but have a bit more pride in yourself. When you go out with someone get to know them, their likes, their ... (read in full...)
I feel cheated and used... am I being taken advantage of?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have been seeing a guy now for about a month, I say seeing, its more sleeping together occasionally and friendship. At the beginning he wanted me around a lot, now he brushes me off often and I get to see him once, maybe twice a we...
A. 1 February 2007: He IS using you love. You're nothing more than a "convenience" to him to be used when he feels like it. He has absolutely no respect for you or he would never have ignored you when you waved over (unless of course he didn't see you which I don't ... (read in full...)
My bf ignores me-should I date my friend's brother who does really like me?
Q. I love my boyfriend very very very much. I love him so much. We're drifting apart, he never talks to me except on weekends. How do i keep him with me? He talks to his friend 'Jadeo' more then me, and it really bugs me. Now a new problem ha...
A. 1 February 2007: You're very young... 16-17? You'll probably have lots of boyfriends before you meet Mr Right. Your boyfriend at the moment doesn't seem very interested in you right now, he's not putting you first and giving you the love and attention you deserve ... (read in full...)
I like this girl and want to surprise her on Valentine's day! Any suggestions?
Q. this girl i like i've dated before once. on msn i asked her if she's ever been asked out on valentines day and she said never and she'll just love to get a card and flowers. so that gives me an idea! i can do the same. i dunno if she likes me in ...
A. 1 February 2007: Ask her out on a date on Valentine's day then. Suggest you go for a meal together and if she says yes then arrange for someone to come up to her during the meal with a beautiful bouquet of flowers for her. I'm sure this would blow her away.
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We split, he said he hates me, but we still work together and he owes me money! What should I do?
Q. I hope someone can shed some light on my problem... I met a guy abroad 5 years ago and when i decided to return home a year later he came with me and we set up home together in my home country where we lived happily together until last November. W...
A. 1 February 2007: I suggest you write him a letter and tell him in a very civilised way that you're sorry things didn't work out for you both and you wish it could have been different as you still care for him. Let him know that you would appreciate it if he could ... (read in full...)
If she loves me, she should desire me as a man.... right?
Q. Okay, I need some advice please. I'm a male, 39 who is in a relationship with my girl, who is 26. We have been together 4 years, and while we've had some rough patches, it is still special and we do love each other, and are committed to one another. ...
A. 1 February 2007: You have been together for 4 years so you should be able to sit down and talk about this. Tell her your fears, ask her why she's been so unresponsive. If she says she doesn't always feel like it then tell her of late she NEVER seems to feel like ... (read in full...)
During sex he got too rough and wouldn't stop! I love him but this has me hurt and confused..what should I do?
Q. well last night i went to the pub, with my boyfriend and our 2 mates. we were all having a good laugh and drinking. and me and paul* were pretty horny, so when we got home we had sex. bout an hour after we did it again. and for some reason it kinda ...
A. 1 February 2007: I agree with what you're saying here martini but these fetishes (if played out) are usually consential, THAT'S the difference here, and there are "safe words" to use if things get out of hand. She didn't get the chance to decide! Even after her ... (read in full...)
My husband tries to impress the new girl next door when she visits - and I caught him looking down her shirt!!
Q. I wonder if my cheating husband will cheat again??? He’s this alpha male and just draws girls to him with his sweet talking and charming ways. He’s cheated on me before and I made it clear that if he cheated on me again I would leave him. Howev...
A. 31 January 2007: Don't say anything bad about this neighbour but admit to him how pretty she is, then say "in fact her husband's kind of handsome too don't you think?" See his reaction. Go on and say "they make the perfect couple and they see so into one another, ... (read in full...)
How do I get w/ a coworker who works in a different department? I don't want to scare him off!
Q. Oh my, I find myself lusting after a guy at work that physically any girl would pass up. However his personality drives me crazy; in a good way of course. He’s not the best looking crayon in the box, but he is so confident, that; that makes him s...
A. 31 January 2007: Hey, I'm so glad I saw your question. Personally I love astrology and would ask a man his star sign BEFORE his name as I think you can tell a lot from someone's star sign. I can even tell what star sign they are after speaking to them for a while. ... (read in full...)
He changed his mind about liking me overnight - and after I started to like him back! Why??
Q. there was this guy that seemed to be really interested in me doing all the right things then one day something changed it was like overnight he changed his mind (of course after i started to care about him). it was like he didnt even care and seemed ...
A. 31 January 2007: The answer is simple... ASK HIM! Put it in a text to him next time he texts you and ask him why he's behaving the way he is.
Eve... (read in full...)
I was prepared for no more conact from her after our split, but she's emailing me! Why is she doing this?
Q. A few months ago I just got out of a 2 year relationship. My ex and I spent some time in limbo, but then she decided that and space was necessary, so was did not speak for over 20 days. After the 20 day mark, I finally contacted my ex and asked her ...
A. 31 January 2007: It sounds to me as if she'd been having second thoughts about your relationship and was thinking of ending things with you. You obviously both seem to get "along" but she wants more! Maybe she feels she's stuck in a rut or that the relationship ... (read in full...)
Leaky condom or not? What do you think?
Q. My boyfriend and I had sex earlier today. We used a condom and when he finished and was out of me we noticed cum on him in his pubic hairs. By the way, the condom seemed to have the normal amount of semen in it and didnt appear to have any rips. ...
A. 31 January 2007: It sounds to me as if the cum was yours and not his, however to make sure you should take the morning after pill which can be bought over the counter now at any pharmacist, or at least it can if you live in the UK. If you don't live in the UK then ... (read in full...)
He watches porn all the time... which makes me insecure!
Q. About a month ago I was looking through my boyfriends online history and saw a lot of porn sites. I never knew that he watched porn but this knowledge didnt really bother me until I started checking his history on a daily basis and saw that he ...
A. 31 January 2007: Guys are only human and I'm sure at one time or another they've all watched porn before. At least he has the decency to watch it when you're not there but you should never have checked out his history like that, that was naughty.
If you conf... (read in full...)
My ex said he still loved me. I found out he's seeing two other girls! We got in a fight, now he says he hates me!
Q. I am obsessed with my ex. I really hope someone can help me here and give me some advice. I went out with my ex b/f for almost five years. We split up in November but never really split up properly as we were still seeing each other and i thought ...
A. 31 January 2007: You should have respected him and gave him his space, at least that way he would have had a chance to miss you! Now you have done some detective work, found out about this other woman, have been agry and upset about it, met him and blurted it all ... (read in full...)
My husband is a good guy, but I feel the wrong one for me. I hate the thought of staying with him AND leaving him!
Q. I have been married for ten years. I married the wrong guy; my husband is a good person, he just isn't the one for me. I am a people person, and he is a 'person' person. He only seems to need me, and isn't interested in making friends or having ...
A. 31 January 2007: You COULD work at this to save your marriage, the question is... do you want to? It sounds to me as if you've already given up on your marriage already. Get in touch with me again if you really want to try and work to save your marriage. If you ... (read in full...)
Me, his ex wife and this other woman -all want him! Am I crazy to keep dating him?
Q. I started having an affair two years ago with my husbands cousin. He was married too. It was supposed to be just friends with benefits since we were both unhappy but, then i started having feelings for him and he said he did for me too. He said ...
A. 31 January 2007: The answer to your question is YES, you ARE crazy for wanting to stay in this situation. Stop being so selfish and think of your husband for a change! How do you feel if he got wind of any of this (and he might as this cousin has already told his ... (read in full...)
Could our rough sex have caused the pink spotting?
Q. Hello girls i need advice, im worried! Recently i have been bleeding inbetween my period its not a lot, but there is a bit! Its bright pink? What does this mean...i had sex the other week with my boyfriend which was a bit rough, could this be the ...
A. 31 January 2007: It could be many things but then I'm not a doctor. I suggest a visit to your GP would be a good idea and the best way to put your mind at rest here.
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Is he being disrespectful or am I over-reacting?
Q. i've always had a problem trusting my live-in bf of about a year. he has alot of old girlfriends from college which doesn't bother me-but it does bother me that he tries to make new girlfriends.he set up a lunch with a girl claiming it was business ...
A. 31 January 2007: Again, it's the trust issue here. Are things so bad between you both that you think he wants to go off and cheat with someone else? What kind of business was he talking about? He's told you he doesn't find her attractive yet you say she IS. He ... (read in full...)
Troubles with my boyfriend... the girl he lost his virginity to is at our college and in the mix
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 months; we've been best friends for 2 and half years and 20 months ago we dated for almost 2 months, so we've gone through everything together. Last year he went out with this girl for under 3 months and lost ...
A. 31 January 2007: You need to trust him and stop being so jealous of her. It's YOU he's chosen to be with not her, remember that. All this constant arguing and bickering with him will do the exact opposite of what you hope to achieve, it will throw him into her ... (read in full...)
Do all relationships end up like this... Start of great, then you move in and things fade and you feel like room-mates?
Q. It seems like all my relationshps end up the same way. They start out good, we get along great, we have sex every night, we cuddle, are affectionate with each other; we call e-mail, or text message each other daily. We talk, have fun, and spend ...
A. 31 January 2007: How long have you been with this guy and how long have you been living together? Relationships have to be worked at, that's the thing, maybe you're just trying too hard. Get him to notice you again, make him want you more. Don't be so available ... (read in full...)
My friend is a compulsive liar...
Q. My friends a complete liar. She just lies like its no big thing. If you confront her about it, she says ''what have i lied about''. But the thing is, shes lies about so much you just cant remember to tell her. She thinks her druggie brother is ...
A. 31 January 2007: She lies to be liked, to be noticed... simple as that! You haven't told me much about your friend but I bet if you went into more detail about her you'd be telling me she's from a broken home and has seen a lot of arguments and troubles in her ... (read in full...)
I don't understand how you can you like someone then all of the sudden you don't... !?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 6mons. Durning the last month he has been flirting with his best friend of the opposite sex. i didnt think much of it until she told him that she hated me. i know she likes him alot she has for years. i never let ...
A. 31 January 2007: My take on this is that he's broken up with you to get with her, maybe she's even asked him to do it, then when he told her he did, she decided she didn't want to be with him after all so he's came crawling back to you.
He has feelings for this... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm 2nd best... I barely ever get hugs or kisses unless he wants sex
Q. Hey all, I have a slight proble concerning the guy I am with at the moment. I am 18, he is 28. But its not the age gap thats the problem. I have been seeing him for 2 months, he is a very nice person, genuine, caring, he has a good job, nice hou...
A. 31 January 2007: You got it in one love, he IS using you! He likes your company but he doesn't want you cramping his style. He does what he wants to do, when he wants to do it and you fit in when he feels like a bit (sex). You're nothing more than a "convenience" ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 31 January 2007: Next time he comes over tell you you're sorry for being such a bitch to him and if you could turn the clock back you would. For the sake of your son though you want to be able to be friends with him and hope he agrees. If you prove by your ACTIONS ... (read in full...)
I regret breaking up w/ him, but we weren't getting along b/c of personal matters. Now he's afraid to get back together!
Q. I need some advice... I had been going out with my boyfriend for a year and broke up with him last week.. i am not sure why i did this. at the time my parents were splitting up and one of his close friends had died. we were both being crappy and ...
A. 31 January 2007: Both of you have been through quite a traumatic time, his close friend dying and your parents splitting up. I would send him a card and write in it how you feel. Tell him you respect his need for space (hence the card) but explain to him that your ... (read in full...)
Is two years long enough dating before popping the question? And how can I make it special for her?
Q. Dear Cupid, i have been dating a my girlfriend for over two years now and i feel we love each other very much. I want to ask her to marry me but i don't no if we have been going out long enough for me to ask?, if i do ask how can i make it romantic ...
A. 31 January 2007: Congratulations on your 2 years together and having a wonderful relationship. How long is long enough? Some people know it's right within a month of dating, other go out for years before they feel they are ready, again others never feel ready so I ... (read in full...)
Are we ever going to have a real relationship?
Q. I met this guy a year ago and we became friends who sleep with each other. He made it clear we couldnt become anything more so, I went off with this other guy for a month. when this ended he was there for me and I started seeing him again. he said ...
A. 31 January 2007: I think you are using each other here. HE was there for you when your relationship broke up and vice versa. I think he is just scared of commitment! Continue seeing him as a friend but don't sleep with him. His feelings for you will grow that ... (read in full...)
We've split and I've turned to drinking and occupying my time to cope, but nothing works! How can I stop drinking and how do I move on?
Q. Hi, I have been through a very nasty break up with my partner of more than 2 years. I am not going to go into the full story of that as I really don’t want to take much of your time, beside it is a very very sad story anyway. Basically I lov...
A. 31 January 2007: First of all I want to commend you for taking the time to tell me about your problem, it's hard for men to sit down and tell a stranger about their personal life but you've taken the first step so well done there!
Secondly, you KNOW you can't ke... (read in full...)
My husband doesn't understand the effect that lack of sex is having on our marriage...
Q. I have been married for 28 years, no children, my husband didn't make love to me and this went on for 5 months with him insisting there is nothing wrong and nobody else, he did still cuddle and be affectionate though. He did go to the doc's for a ...
A. 31 January 2007: I really sympathise with you, it is one thing to get a cuddle every now and again but we NEED to be made love to and reassured in our lives. It also bonds us together closer then any cuddle or hug. Watching porn is NOT the answer -
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My husband doesn't understand the effect that lack of sex is having on our marriage...
Q. I have been married for 28 years, no children, my husband didn't make love to me and this went on for 5 months with him insisting there is nothing wrong and nobody else, he did still cuddle and be affectionate though. He did go to the doc's for a ...
A. 31 January 2007: I really sympathise with you, it is one thing to get a cuddle every now and again but we NEED to be made love to and reassured in our lives. It also bonds us together closer then any cuddle or hug. Watching porn is NOT the answer -
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What should I do: Stay with my boyfriend and my crappy job... or join the Army and have a great time?
Q. ive been with my boyfriend for 6 months, and we love each other greatly, his the most imporant thing in my life. when we got together, we thought we'd only be together for a month because i was going to go into the army. but i feel in love with him ...
A. 31 January 2007: I think you have answered your own question here love. "...stay with my boyfriend and have a crappy job or go to the army and have an amazing time..."
There are lots of men and women who join the forces and still have very fulfilling relation... (read in full...)
He sometimes makes me cringe when he speaks, and he's in debt... This all makes me feel like a snob... Am I making yet another dating mistake?
Q. I am a 42 year old woman, divorced for 7 years and have 2 adolescent children. I have a PhD and a professional job. I enjoy the arts and theatre and I like to mix in intelligent company. I look a lot younger than my years partly due to good genes ...
A. 31 January 2007: I would continue to date this man for the time being. He will learn by your example and in time will hopefully get his debts paid and grow in maturity as time goes on, at least give him that chance. The more he's with you, the more of YOUR good ... (read in full...)
What signs will tell me if my girlfriend is cheating?
Q. Please help..I feel my g/friend maybe cheating..What are the signs to look for? - serious answers from ladies and girls most appreciated..Thank you.....
A. 31 January 2007: Hi love,
Okay, here is a run down for you. One way to tell if she's cheating is to catch her lying about a matter. You can follow her eye movements to tell if she is lying. Ask more questions if she looks uncomfortable or uneasy. If she tries to... (read in full...)
Help! I'm stuck in a love triangle! Does he really love me, or should I ignore him?
Q. Okay right.Yeah i love my boyfriend but I also love my boyfriend's best mate who is going out with my best mate. But i think he (my boyfriend's best mate) loves me also. But anyway, my best mate's BROTHER has now tried to be secretive. Texting me ...
A. 31 January 2007: You are realising now that as you grow from being a girl into a woman you have a certain amount of "power" over men and you don't know how to handle this.
Fancying your boyfriend's best mate (hence your friend's boyfriend) is NOT COOL! It is also ... (read in full...)
We broke up after 6 years - he wants to work to fix things.. but I want more, what shall I tell him?
Q. Hi, i have been with my boyfriend for 6 years and we have lived together for more than half that time. I broke up with him on Saturday after having decided I couldn't see a future together. There are many issues, things i don't like about him and ...
A. 31 January 2007: I can totally understand where you're coming from love. He IS a nice guy, he has a lot of good qualities but you want more. Tell him exactly what you wrote... "But I want MORE, you know? I want to be in love, I want passion, I want ... (read in full...)
I'm so happy to be with him and I want the world to know it! But Why am I suddenly feeling this way?
Q. Hi I'm 16 and I have been wiv my boyfriend for a month now and before, I didn't really want everyone to know we were going out with eachother. I don't know why, i just didn't. But now just recently I have been beginning to want everyone to know that...
A. 31 January 2007: Your relationship seems to be going from strength to strength. You were maybe a bit worried at first that things weren't going to work out between you, hence the reticence you felt but now that you've been seeing one another for a month you realise ... (read in full...)
During sex he got too rough and wouldn't stop! I love him but this has me hurt and confused..what should I do?
Q. well last night i went to the pub, with my boyfriend and our 2 mates. we were all having a good laugh and drinking. and me and paul* were pretty horny, so when we got home we had sex. bout an hour after we did it again. and for some reason it kinda ...
A. 30 January 2007: He was obviously enjoying it and was totally aroused, when you told him to stop he refused, for his own selfish gratification! There was NO WAY he was stopping until he'd had his way with you. You say he's never been as bad as this before with you ... (read in full...)
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