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writes:Okay right.Yeah i love my boyfriend but I also love my boyfriend's best mate who is going out with my best mate. But i think he (my boyfriend's best mate) loves me also. But anyway, my best mate's BROTHER has now tried to be secretive. Texting me saying things like: "I love you" and "I want you to know that I love you." And at the end he puts "love your secret admirer."He told his sister (my best mate) that he really likes me and stuff like that. But I'm already in a love triangle.What should I do, just ignore it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2007): I think that you shouldn't be with your boyfriend. After all you don't just love him you love your boyfriend's best mate as well. As well as not being with your boyfriend you should be with your boyfriend's best mate either. I mean how would you feel if you were in your boyfriend's situation and as well as loving you he loved your best friend? You wouldn't like it would you? Also if you aren't interested in your best friend's brother then you should just ignore the texts. You could tell your best friend to tell her brother to stop them. The best thing to do is move on and stay out of the love triangle, before it's too late.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for helping me XD
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reader, AskEve +, writes (31 January 2007):
 You are realising now that as you grow from being a girl into a woman you have a certain amount of "power" over men and you don't know how to handle this.
Fancying your boyfriend's best mate (hence your friend's boyfriend) is NOT COOL! It is also NOT fair to your boyfriend. Either get a grip of your feelings here and remain true to your boyfriend or break it off with him and play the field a bit. If you don't... you'll end up losing all of them including your best friend!
Eve
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reader, cd206 +, writes (30 January 2007):
 Do you really love your boyfriend? I think if you did you wouldn't even be contemplating being with anyone else. As for the other guys who are telling you they love you, no offence intended, but they don't. You can't love someone so immediately. Theyre mixing up lust and love. You don't sound like you want to be in a relationship, you sound like you just want to enjoy having fun so maybe it's time to finish with your boyfriend.
CD
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