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writes:Oh my, I find myself lusting after a guy at work that physically any girl would pass up.However his personality drives me crazy; in a good way of course.He’s not the best looking crayon in the box, but he is so confident, that; that makes him sexy! Maybe inside he is insecure, but hell if he shows it. “Typical Aries man” ummmmm yummy!K’ so two weekends ago I was having sex with my ex, a good looking reporter (he’s just a jerk) and when he went to kiss my breast I totally pictured (like in the movies) the not so good looking guy from work.I couldn’t help but think of him on me! Yikes! We flirt a little in our conversations at work, but we are on different departments.He just fixes stuff around the building.At night I touch myself and just think of the guy at work and I’ve never done that before.I just love his confidence, how he’s a hard working man, and i’d walk on fire to say he must be really good in bed! He has that rouged, tough guy, cave-man thing about him that drives me crazy.I know he likes my breast (lol) and I enjoy it when he looks down my shirt, but he also looks like he’s a good man (besides sexually appetizing). He cares about his parents and aww that’s so sweet. K’ here’s my question, what can I do to get w/this guy?I like him I really do, I’m just scared because of my job title what co-workers would say (no policy on that he he he). Should I wear sexy outfits or would that be too sluty and to noticeable? I don’t want to scare him off, but I don’t want to loose him.What are Aries man attracted to in a woman physically and characteristically? (I can’t find to much info online about that) should I even worry about his sign? Please advise
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (31 January 2007):
 Hey, I'm so glad I saw your question. Personally I love astrology and would ask a man his star sign BEFORE his name as I think you can tell a lot from someone's star sign. I can even tell what star sign they are after speaking to them for a while. If you want to win an Aries man then be quick, witty and keep him guessing. Aries men LOVE a challenge (much more than most). When he asks you a question, answer him with a question. They love to be in charge and they're ALWAYS right (they think ;o)). If one falls in love with you then they'll put you on a pedestal but they also get fiercely jealous if they see you talking to someone else (male of course) and will question you about the person. If you like someone who's strong, masculine and attentive to you and opinionated then this man is for you. In turn you must look after yourself and be classy and feminine, a bit of mystery goes a long way with them too. Don't whine and moan about things, keep bubbly and assertive and you'll have him eating out of your hand.
Dress more classy than sexy. Show a bit of cleavage but leave something to the imagination. Show him you're grounded and in total control, be the first to say "I need to go now" and he'll be putty in your hands.
They are wonderful in the bedroom too, very attentive and very adventurous, full of passion too. If you want to know more about how an Aries man ticks then email me and tell me your star sign too okay?
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reader, dragonette  +, writes (30 January 2007):
 Well, you seem to take astrological signs seriously, and I can't help you with what Aries men like, but I do think that a guy who has confidence in himself wouldn't be put off by someone asking him out. Besides, self confidence doesn't look good only on men, it looks very nice on women as well =)
I wouldn't go for the slutty outfits as the two of you are in a working environment, but maybe you can wear something that will look good on you, without showing too much skin?
And may I just add that I think it's wonderful that there are still people out there who know how to look beyond the surface =)
Good luck catching the crayon!
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