A
female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes: there was this guy that seemed to be really interested in me doing all the right things then one day something changed it was like overnight he changed his mind (of course after i started to care about him). it was like he didnt even care and seemed to be someone completly different. The only thing is he shows up where he knows ill be and will message me sometimes ( i think to see if ill answer). so can any guy out there please tell why. if he dosnt want to be with me and treating me like he never did then why does he care. why wont he just leave me alone so i can get over it. Any one with the answer to this question or that has any advice. im all ears Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, AskEve +, writes (31 January 2007):
The answer is simple... ASK HIM! Put it in a text to him next time he texts you and ask him why he's behaving the way he is.
Eve
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reader, Ponungalungb +, writes (30 January 2007):
Maybe he is interested in you as a friend. Maybe he was interested in more than friendship, but you did something that made him think that you only wanted him as a friend.
Maybe he is playing a game of "Cat & Mouse." He's interested, you're not. Then, you're interested, now he's not. A little tug of war. Maybe he just discovered he is gay. LOL.
You'll have to be the one to figure him out.
Good luck!
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