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writes:I love my boyfriend very very very much.I love him so much.We're drifting apart, he never talks to me except on weekends.How do i keep him with me? He talks to his friend 'Jadeo' morethen me, and it really bugs me.Now a new problem has arisen.My best mates brother has decided he likesme an awful lot.He texts me as a 'secret admirer'I didnt notice and i must have seriouslyhurt him when i kissed my bf in front of him.What should i do because i kinda like herbrother back. But i love my bf aswell.As he doesn't seem to love me and the Brother does, should i go with thebrother?loves xxx
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reader, depaiva  +, writes (2 February 2007):
 I can understand that you have strong fellings for your bf but if he doesn't show you that he cares then what's the point of being in the relationship? And i know how hard it is to let go of someone you really like, and no doubt you'll feel terrible afterwards and you'll probably want to get back with him. Be strong and be true to yourself...
If this other guy is showing you more interest then your boyfriend then he deserves you more. Give him a chance but break it off with your bf first. You deserve to be HAPPY :-)
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reader, AskEve +, writes (1 February 2007):
 You're very young... 16-17? You'll probably have lots of boyfriends before you meet Mr Right. Your boyfriend at the moment doesn't seem very interested in you right now, he's not putting you first and giving you the love and attention you deserve so I would let him go for sure. You tell HIM it's over between you and move on.
Go out with the best mate's brother for a pizza or coffee. Get to know him better, don't sit in being miserable over this other guy but move on and enjoy yourself and have fun. It's your boyfriend's loss that you broke up with him, he doesn't deserve you so go for it with this other guy.
I wish you all the best.
Eve
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