A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: I have been with my boyfriend for 6mons. Durning the last month he has been flirting with his best friend of the opposite sex. i didnt think much of it until she told him that she hated me. i know she likes him alot she has for years. i never let her get in the way until this week when he called to tell me he might have feelings for her but not as strong of feelings for me. he broke up with me. 40mins later he was begging for me back. i dont understand how you can you like someone then all of the sudden you dont? should i get back with him? i dont know whats best for me? help!
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reader, AskEve +, writes (31 January 2007):
My take on this is that he's broken up with you to get with her, maybe she's even asked him to do it, then when he told her he did, she decided she didn't want to be with him after all so he's came crawling back to you.
He has feelings for this other girl, he probably has had for months! Whether you give him another chance is entirely up to you though. In my opinion, I don't think either of you are ready for a relationship and I would take it very slowly with him, if at all.
Eve
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