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Now he just wants to be my friend. What do I do?

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Question - (10 March 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 March 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, *amden angel writes:

I'm seeing a guy with two other girlfriends even though i know the situation and am quite secure enough to be able to handle the lack of monogomy, he decided to break up as he "cares" to much to lose me from his life. He wants to remain close friends because in the end he will never be able to give me what i want or need but now wants me to decide what i want... what do i do???

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A female reader, AskEve United Kingdom +, writes (11 March 2007):

AskEve agony auntWhat an excuse to give you! lmao I hope you didn't fall for it? He can't handle 3 of you so the last one needs to go... that's you! You don't need a user like this in your life, don't fall for his smooth talk. He wants you to decide what you want right? Tell him you want to get on with your life, getting together was a big mistake! You have a very busy life at the moment and if you can fit him in as a friend then fine.

Move on, he's a definite user love.

Eve

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A female reader, aunty t Ireland +, writes (10 March 2007):

aunty t agony auntYou get him out of your life. Are you saying he was seeing three girls at once? He really is unbelievable. And you went along with this. He is using you as he is the other two. I can understand why he cant give you what you want or need, find someone who you can have all for yourself and you dont have to share. You deserve much much better than this guy.

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