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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2007): Trust is subjective as it depends on the area of trust, I'm guessing its a man who has broken your trust, first i would assess why they broke my trust are there underlying issues on thier part? are they trully sorry not through words through actions? can YOU forgive and forget or is what they did just too hurtfull? Ultimately you both need to equally want to make it better if you don't both want it then it will not work and the trust will continue to be broken untill one party can take no more. Just remeber you are the only one who can look after you and we are in this world alone so love yourself know how great you are and focus on making yourself feel better as oppoesed to aiting for him to do it, then whether you can build the trust or not you are still standing and still strong,and that is a big kick in the nuts to the person who caused the pain as they see what they have or what they lost
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2007): It depends on the person. What kind of trust has been broken? I personally cannot ever trust a bloke again if he has cheated on me. That is it. It is over and i have to get along without them. There is no going back. Sorry, but that is how i am and i know that everyone is different. It is up to you, and just how or why the trust has been broken. More info needed.
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reader, AskEve +, writes (12 March 2007):
 TRUST has to be earned. If you have done something to lose someone's trust then you need to show them by your actions that you are really sorry and prove to them by these actions that it will never happen again. This can take weeks, months or even years. You don't give information about what happened and why the trust has gone. Depending on the severity of the situation the trust my never be gotten back.
Eve
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2007): firsly you have to start trusting yourself,and put everything into trusting whomever your insecurities lay with,no more snooping in phones,computers etc it has to start with you,otherwise there is no point
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