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writes:hi, i wrote up yesteday asking for advice on whether to tell my best friend how i felt about her. Well i'm stopping over there tonight and i've decided i'm going to. Could you give me some advice on how to bring the subject up, i don't just want to suddenly come out with it in the middle of watching t.v. I want it to be at the right time and i want to do it in the right way. thanks in advance.
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reader, AskEve +, writes (11 March 2007):
 I would ask her if she ever sees you as being MORE than just a friend? Let her answer, if she says "why do you ask" reply "I just wondered." Leave her hanging, if she's interested you can bet she'll carry on with that conversation for sure!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2007): Well you could firstly start talking about your friendship together before dropping it that you have feelings for her. That way it'll make it easier for you rather than just blurting out all your feelings for her whilst there is some silence between you. Firstly just talk about the things that you do together as mates, then start telling her what makes her such a good friend and build it up so that she starts to get the hint of what you are trying to tell her and then eventually tell her that you have feelings for her. She might be shocked at first and maybe the feeling is mutual. Anyway good luck and i'd love to know how the whole thing went.
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