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writes:hey ok so i have this family friend his name is dan. we are both the same age but he is in college and i`m in school. we have known each other since we were little and both familys used to meet up a lot of the time.But then the visits stopped. After a year i had to meet up with dan again as i wanted to go to college and i wanted to ask him for advice. When we talked he couldn`t keep his eyes off me. He asked me for my number but i couldn`t give it to him as i had my phone taken away. When i got my phone back i text him to ask for advice again as i have my first interview. He said that i was beautiful and amazing and that he loves the new me ( appearance has changed since we last saw each other) after a lot more days over the next few days, he told me that he really liked me. I really liked him too. A few days later we started talking dirty to each other (Sexting) and we basically talked a lot about sex. we planned to do it with each other. we both want to do it with someone we care about.I started to fall for him. i`ve always had feelings for him but its never been as strong as it is now.But then we just stopped talking and he got another gf which he told me he was in love with. He said he didn`t want to hurt and break up the family. And that i mean everything to him. Did he use me for sex?thats what my friends say but i don`t want to believe it. i think i`m in love with him and i don`t know what to do,since i have to see him again soon anyway.help ?
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reader, Uptongirl3112 +, writes (24 April 2011):
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2011): This probably isn't what you want to hear so I'm sorry but it does sound that way. If he said all those things to you and then got a girlfriend and told you he didn't want to break up the family then he sounds a little guilty. He knows he's done wrong and doesn't want you to tell everyone and cause a shudder between your two families. I'm sorry but it doesn't sound too good from where I'm sitting. If I was you and I had to see him again I'd act uninterested, even though you really like him if you act uninterested then he'll see your a strong, independent person and he will show you the respect you deserve.I hope this helped even though it wasn't what you wanted to hear. Good luck.
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