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writes:hi my wife had a one night stand when we where enganged six yrs ago, but has being faithfull so far now i feel like cheating on her because am hurt.am just thinking about it. am not talking to her how can i forget she did it with our family friend
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reader, cupidus  +, writes (25 April 2011):
 Sorry I don't buy it, you've had 6 years of marriage and she did this act before you married. You had the choice than, and you married her, as my old man would say "you sleep in the bed you make" This has a tone to it that you want to have an affair and you are looking for an excuse IMO.
If not than I only have to ask, why now?
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reader, rosie2057 +, writes (25 April 2011):
Either you need to forgive her and try to rebuild the relationship or you need to end it.
Only you know if you will ever be able to trust her again. If you can't, do yourself a favor and end your marriage before it gets really ugly.
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reader, eddie85 +, writes (25 April 2011):
 While I can understand your frustrations and sense of betrayal, I would urge you to think twice about feeling entitled to a fling. If you think it through, you'll feel guilty and your wife would probably be very upset too. I think it would spell the end of your marriage.
You state that she has been faithful since the incident and it did happen 6 years ago. If you suspect that she has been seeing other people, then I think you need to think twice about whether you want to continue this relationship (from the sounds of it, though, this isn't the case) I think at this point, you need simply need time to get over it and hopefully your wife will apologize and somehow find a way to make it up to you.
Best wishes.
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reader, Capri2  +, writes (24 April 2011):
I totally agree with QuantumModulus she hid it for six years and that's even worst than the cheating itself. There is no way you can trust such a woman now. So, there is no relationship here.
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