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writes:To Men Only: If you have ever been with a woman you loved, lost interest in her what were the first signs of your disinterest?.,,,Thank you. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2011): when a man starts loosing interest in a woman the 1st sign is lack of sex then other things just follow what was once normal between you both no longer exist
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2011): There are definite signs of someone losing interest and it has to do with the other person pulling away from you. It often happens gradually and the person finds excuses to not be with you or start fights as a way to justify needing even more space. Think about how you behave when you lose interest in something? Everyone more or less acts the same when it comes to that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2011): That's impossible to answer OP because all those signs could be other things too. Signs are very easily misread. If you have that feeling, if you have a gut feeling that is the case then you should trust that, because honestly OP you just kind of know, but you shouldn't read too deeply into "signs".
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reader, sarcy24  +, writes (24 April 2011):
 I am a woman but thought i would post as I asked my husband this question years ago and he told me that it is exactly as Danielpew says - it is not a sudden event or one thing that changes things it is a build up of events and things that the person doesn't like such as lack of caring, unsociability, making things difficult with family members, dirty home, laziness, lack of attention/ sex atc and then one day you see the light and it is over. He told me there is never any going back once you have made that decision.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (24 April 2011):
 People do give out signs of having lost interest, but I don't think it's right to think that a particular action or omission is a clear sign of anything. Except, perhaps, in extreme cases.
People who are truly interested do not lose interest all of a sudden, but in stages or, if you want another metaphor, you slide down to the point of no interest and no return. I think that one day you wake up and you sort of see the light, and the signs, if there are signs, only happen when you're very near that moment.
Do you have any concrete story to tell? That way it would be easier to give you an opinion.
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reader, RookieOnLove +, writes (24 April 2011):
From a male perspective, i found my lady stopped contacting me so often, stopped calling me, never heeded the letters I sent her, never mentioned the stuff I would do by surprise for her family, stop saying she liked me, stopped telling me about her life.Such is life, we have to accept it and hope not to ever do something like that to other people.
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