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writes:My best friend is also my ex boyfriend and we are still in love with each other. He has a girlfriend, but he sees, talks, and flirts with me more than her. As a matter of fact, they NEVER see each other...well, today I told her that I think I may want him back, and she went off about him flirting and stuff and she sent me, "Him flirting wit u, him telling u he loves you, yeah u minds well go fuck him. I'm just saying' it's like u guys are datin' behind my back:/ I really hope that's nt happenin' " , I recently told him that we can no longer speak because of it, though..I've told him this before, but I always ended up back in his arms crying..I don't know if I made the right choice or if this will end as it did before..I need some advice, please....
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (25 April 2011):
 oh for heaven's sake, what did you expect her to say when you told her you MAY want him back?
That's nasty, you are nasty to be encouraging him behind her back, crying in his arms. You are one nasty girl, my advise to you is to straighten up and try to be a decent person before your bad behaviour becomes ingrained.
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reader, cardinal +, writes (25 April 2011):
 Why did you break up in the first place?
But if this guy isn't being loyal to his current GF, that isnt a good sign. For all you know, if you go back to him, that could be you.
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reader, boogie4 +, writes (25 April 2011):
Be honest with everyone involved and you won't have any problems. It seems to me that she knows something is up, and by not owning up to it, may make you look like you're hiding something.
come forth with both of them, and let the chips fall.
hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2011): Never ever steal another woman's man. Standard.It causes too much trouble, and too much bitching. If he breaks up with her, fair enough, but he will only do that if he wants too- no matter how much you tell him you want him, he isn't going to leave her unless he wants you back. Trying to make him is going to push him further away.Try and get over him. Plenty more fish in the sea! :)
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