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writes:I am 19 years old and I've started doing volunteer work at a railway. There's this girl who I fancy, we keep smiling at each other and she is single. Academically we are pretty similar, we come from similar backgrounds as well.You're probably thinking I should ask her out no problem. Well there is a problem, she is really popular (ev everyone likes her) and I only really have two close friends. I have lots of acquantancies but only two close friends. I want to ask her out and have been thinking about doing so. I just feel she's out of my league as she is extremley popular and I'm not.Should i ask her out? How and when and where will i do that? And what could i suggest we do if i do ask her out? Reply to this Question
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reader, cupidus  +, writes (25 April 2011):
 Think of your comfort level, if you're going to get nervous about asking her out, you might want to do something like a formal invitation, a really classy card asking her out at such and such a time and leave your phone number to call.At least you'll be able to keep a comfortable distance and get a formal answer. Again think about your comfort level with the date itself, keep it short and in a place you feel most comfortable in. Walking in the park, the zoo, the library a poetry reading, your favorite pub or restaurant.But your comfort level will be most favored because you'll feel less nervous and more free to share something of yourself. Don't do anything you haven't done before, don't go to places you've never been before. Think of your hobbies and interests, photography, bikes, cars, museums, book stores, etc.
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