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writes:i just wanna an advice , I'm married with a woman in another country now she is gonna have a baby and i don't like the idea neither being married any more i'm so depressed about having a baby and continuing being married , no sex no fun but i still try to be nice . Please help me i don't know what to do ? thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2011): My uncle ditched his young family. Everyone is ashamed of him. No one talks to him. Hes tried apologizing but we tell him he shouldn't be apologizing to us. Let me tell you, no one, i repeat, no one, likes a man who walks out on his family. Not even your family will like you. Your kid will hate you even if you do come back. He might say he forgives you, but there will always be that little bit of anger. Don't leave. Once you hold that little baby you will know it was worth it.
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reader, cupidus  +, writes (25 April 2011):
 Your role as father, husband is changing you.
You have the choice to run for the hills or accept your choices and be the best father and husband going.
There is no sex, is she still in the other country?
Are you living together?
It's hard facing responsibilities, it's hard to compromise and look at the future with delight when you are heavy in responsibility. But I'll tell you what's harder, walking away from them, that's a sign of weakness and self defeat.
You may feel you jumped in to soon, you will have to think about why you got into this RS and make proper choices for your family and your life. What are the circumstances for the marriage?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2011): Get out while you can! run for the hills!
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reader, GG96 +, writes (25 April 2011):
Suck it up. No one could ever respect someone who left his baby because it didn't seem "fun" anymore.
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