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writes:I'm not really sure what I'm asking here...advice I guess...I recently started to fool around with a friend (we haven't had intercourse- only oral sex, and a lot of dry humping with nothing but our underwear on). Anyhow, thing is I had only ever been with another guy before, and I've clearly realized that no two men are the same. Thing is I don't know how to go about pleasing this new guy. Should I ask him outright what he likes or not? Wouldn't that spoil the mood? I did try asking him if he liked to be bit or licked- he said yes, but wouldn't tell me where ¬¬'. I tried giving him oral but he seemed to be uncomfortable. I think we haven't had actual intercourse because he's hesitant to say anything...and I am too. Should I just tell him to grab a condom? What if he doesn't want to ?Then there's the thing about kissing... I love kissing but he doesn't seem to be very fond of it. Any ideas on what to do about this?Thanks for any replies!
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reader, ironman777  +, writes (24 April 2011):
Hi - so you have realised that all guys are different and they like different things. I suggest one of you has to take the lead and just do what you have done in the past and adapt yourself as you go along - so if that means condoms then get him turned on and put one on him and then lie back - I'm sure any man will know what to do after that - listening to what he says and showing him what you like will result in better sex over time - I'm sure before you know it you will be full swing into your honeymoon period and you will have all the sex you can handle.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (24 April 2011):
 If you are able to be intimate with him well then you should be able to talk to him about it. So really there is no way around it. You need to talk to him and ask him does he want to have sex and ask him to tell you what he likes so that you can please him.
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