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writes:My best friend(becca) and her boyfriend(nick) just broke up after a year and a half. Over that time i have become close with both of them. Including nick. Right when they broke up Becca called me. and a few mins later nick called to and told me about it. They broke up because they argued all the time. Nick broke up with her. Nick has been talking to me about it because he wanted a girls point of view. Becca has since found out that me and him have been conversing. and has been getting mad. She say the reason why is because i'm suppose to be on her side cause we've been friends longer. And she feels like she's lost 2 best friends because nick took me a way from her. Nick and i are best friends. I would call him my "top of the list" best friend.Becca and i have known each other for 11 years. so you know how that friendship is. She has even told me that she jealous of me and even when her and nick were dating she was always cautious of me because "i hotter then her"i think if nick had not have dated becca we would have dated.Nick has also come to my house mulitible time. He love hangin around my family. There are even time where i'm not even home and he comes to hang out with my little brother.Since they broke i've been in the middle of everything. becca also told me not to text him or hang out with him at all. i don't know what i should do. i can't pick who i'm better friends with. i love them both. and i've tried to tell her and she understands that me and nick are really good friends but she doesn't know i've been texting him and he's been coming over. and if she did know i'll lose her as a friend. and if i go with her way i'll lose nick as a friend. what do you think about this situation?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2011): Try and stay friends with both of them and tell her true friends wouldnt try and make you choose who you can be friends with tell her that you understand how she feels but that hes nothing to do with your and his friendship. If that doesnt work maybe give her a little space just so she can think every thing through.
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