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writes: my long term boyfriend broke it off with me ten months ago when i told him i was pregnant. i was desvasted. i had a melt down really coping with the fact i was dumped, later to find out he had been cheating, and that i was pregnant. well anyways my pregnancy wasn't easy and he wasn't around. i learnt to cope and move on. now that the baby is born he wants to see our child, and i'm trying, but everytime i see him it open up old wounds, that don't have a chance to heal. he tells me he hates me but then he calls me pet. what does that mean? does he still have feelings ??? well anyways i am now looking at moving to a diffrent place which is 2 hours away from him but he telling me i can't move because he hasn't the money to travel to see her..also he now telling me he can't pay maintence because he can't afford to but i know he's out every weekend drinking and booking hotels to stay with his new gf. plus he going on holidays, so what do i do? i don't want to cut him out but i don't want to be taken for a mug, because he knows i still love him. and i certainly don't want to be in that place again i was in 6 months ago please help anyone...
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reader, Aunty Susie  +, writes (25 April 2011):
 Contact your Child Support Agency, let them deal with the issue of money. Move as planned, if he wants to see his daughter, he will. You need to make a new life for yourself, but you will need to maintain contact with him, for your daughter's sake. Best of luck to you.
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