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*razycat27
writes:I've recently met this guy who I'm starting to fall for I can't stop thinking about him .. Hes even giving me butterflys and I get really nervous when I see him .. I haven't felt like this before , not even with my exs, having him around gives me the beat feeling , even if my day is bad he makes makes me smile N brightens it up. .. ,I'm rather shy when it comes to dating guys and I fear rejection lots he seems rather shy also !! .. I was wondering how can you tell if a guy likes you ..I'm not too sure if he likes me or not , I was wondering if anyone can help me out ??? What's it mean when a guy says "there's ya boyfriend " to someone who really isnt and knows he isn't ?? Is he saying thT to get an idea if I'm single ?? Is him calling me princess and stuff a hint and with him always coming up to me and moving my stuff away from me mean he's being all flirty to get my attention or what .. He also likes to pick on me but in a nice kinda way ??... Also if he's talking rather dirty talk around you is that also something .. Does that mean he's comfortable with you ?? I need some light onto what this is cos I don't want to make a d#*k out of my self if he's just being nice ?
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reader, loveonce  +, writes (19 April 2011):
 look.chill out relaxxxx!!!!the way you are feeling is surely a sign of attraction(of a considerable level).the guy may be attracted towards you or your beauty...he wants a relation with you(therefore he may be spending his time,which he could spend hunting girls smwhere)........the key is Just HOLD..watch how long does it go...let the love/attractiopn come to the brim from his side...and for this take your timeee...coz only this can assure whether he wants you OR your body...do not give one sidedly.test:his patience.give him an illusion of physical closeness...watch whether he wants to be physical desperately or pauses..and ask you for confirmation...his facial gestures,non-fast way of getting to the sex... etc. would confirm his identity as a good bf/lover..(just pretend to be romantic,do not actually be..or let him be) (or make it simple,lets try kisses)don't rush.don't always be nice to him.don't always say yes to him(if asked out,wanted opinion etc.)...and watch the responses...let him open his cards...as you do not want to let him take a d?#k out of u!!hopefully we will meet thru this again..with good news..
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2011): Hmm, i would be careful if i was you. I don't want to put you off or discourage you but if a man used any dirty talk, or joked about with me in any kind of sexual way then that would tell me, his main interest is getting me in bed.Sure he probably likes you and stuff, but his pursuit might be to get you into bed supoce to a relationship. I think if a man wants, more than just sex of a women, then he probably wouldn't uses dirty talk around you. He would be more interested in you as a person and because he would, want to know what it takes to win you over, to make you his girl.I could be wrong but i just want to make you aware of possibiltys because when you have strong feeling for a person, it's easy over look stuff and believe what you want to. Just what ever you do, Don't sleep with him! Unless you want to feel used and hurt, don't even go their. Wait until, you are in a relationship and make him wait a long time, just to be sure he's being genuine.With some men it's all about the chase, and when they have gotten, what they wanted, you won't see them again. Now this is all good and well if it's just a one night stand ur after but, I'm sure it's not if you feel like your falling for him
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reader, ToHereKnowsWhen +, writes (19 April 2011):
 Wow, what a wonderful way to feel. I think he's just trying to get your attention and teasing you a bit to work you out. You won't be a `d#*k' if you go with the flow. Sounds promising.
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