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writes: Hi there. I'm pretty sure I'm in a huge pickle here. I don't know what to do. Crazy thing I just recently started dating my supervisor, we keep it professional, work stays at work and our play time stays at home. Anyways, he is the best guy I've ever dated. I've been friends with him for two years before we started dating. Things are so great between us. Well, at work we haven't told any of our co-workers, though some how things are stirring up, about how I get special treatment, and no work gets done blah blah blah! It just goes on and on.....I don't know how someone found out. I know you can't keep it a secret forever. I was wondering, is there a way to stop all of this? Or should I just go and get a new job? I don't want things to get out of hand. We realy have something good going here. Thanks for your help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThing is I don't get any special treatment at work. Even when we were just friends I was treated the same as everyone else. It is very frustrating to work with a bunch of women that talk to you like a friend and as soon as you leave they talk bad things about you when you're not in the room. These crazy women start rumors talk about our relationship all of the time. All we want to do is do our jobs and go home. Why are some women like that? It's ridiculous. Why can't people you work with mind their own business? I'm going to talk with my boyfriend tonight. See how it goes. Thanks for inputs!
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