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writes:I went on holiday last week with my family and another family we are close too. Any way cut to the chase, there's this girl in the other family my age who I have always kinda liked. So we were gonna go swimming so I waited for her while she got changed. When she met me she looked great in her bikini and I ended up getting hard over it. It was so embarrassing especially as she saw it. I ran (who wouldn't have) and when I saw her again told her not to tell a soul. We havnt spoken since and I don't know how I can face her now, I really like her but what if she tells all her friends about it or doesn't want to know me anymore. I don't want this to ruin any chance I had with her, please does anyone know what I can do to stop this from ruining my chances ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2011): hii...
i don't think you need to stress over it. personally, i (and most girls i know) would consider this a really big compliment. i would say just face her like nothing happened. and if she acts any differently around you, then she's probably not really all that mature...in which case i would advise you to think hard before you continue pursuing her.
good luck, and God bless,
~sarsar~
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2011): Don't stress! Girl's don't think so much over it as you think. I've only ever been flattered. If she brings it up just be honest and say you thought she looked really nice in her bikini, that's all. So if she doesn't return the feelings it's alright because it's normal for guys to do that for a girl in their bikini. Otherwise try the flirting, fake confidence even if you don't feel it. You'll be fine!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2011): Haha relax man, I'm sure this girl took it as a complement. Try flirt with her a little and use this too your advantage. ;)
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