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female
age
36-40,
*lapure4
writes:I just met this guy two weeks ago via an online dating site and he seems like a good catch. We share a lot of the same interests and characteristics, and we plan on meeting for the first time this week. Hence the question above, we communicate everyday on the phone it seems (and for hours on end) through texting and phone calls. I enjoy the conversations we have because he's a funny, charismatic guy! And im sure he feels the same way about me. In fact, he's the first to contact me in the morning/afternoon and the last to respond at night. There is never a dull moment between us! But of course, we just met and I don't know if this is considered normal (despite the fact that we haven't personally met). I don't want to lose that spark. :) Should I continue our daily conversations or if he contacts me, should I ignore them and wait a few days to respond back? This would help a lot!
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reader, mizz.butterflies +, writes (20 April 2011):
 u shouldnt be talking for countless hours with a STRANGER.
u guys should meet asap.
despite that...
a woman shouldnt seem so available as u do right now, talking to him everyday for hours.
break the routine,make him miss u. if u dont, he will put u in the BACK UP LIST and start looking for more challenging women.
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female
reader, ToHereKnowsWhen  +, writes (19 April 2011):
 Of course it's normal. You've both just met and it seems obvious that you like each other. Don't play games with him, go with the flow. But when you decide to meet, it's good sense to make sure it is in a safe place like a coffee shop or whatever.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (19 April 2011):
 Enjoy it.he likes you...if you like him have fun.be safebe sanebut have fun.
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reader, rememberthismoment_  +, writes (19 April 2011):
 I never stopped talking to a guy I met on a dating site, it's because we really got along and liked each other.
Yes, it's perfectly normal and lovely for you to have found someone like this - as long as it's mutual.. like he emails, you email back, he emails, you email back ect :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2011): Enjoy this While it lasts! But as soon as you start dating you should slow down communication and make sure he's the one to initiate it most of the time, to keep him interested.
When I started dating my now husband, I used to 'conveniently' forget my mobile phone at home every once in a while, kept him on his toes & made sure he always appreciated me!! Honestly, I've never seen this fail.
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