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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2011): Unrequited love is never easy (going through it myself at this time). Here's what I've been doing to get over my unrequited love:
1. Take a break from each, distance yourself.
2. Write all your feelings down about him/her. It really helps to physically manifest your feelings in some way. If it really becomes too much pain to bear, burn everything what you wrote about them. It really makes you feel like a massive weight has been taken off you.
3. Get all your deepest feelings out first of all to get it out the way with, if you feel the need to cry, then cry.
4. Express your feelings anyway you can to let them out. Play a musical instrument, draw, talk about it to someone you trust etc.
5. Exercise, or some sort of physical activity.
6. Go out with friends, loved ones etc.
7. Try to go out dating.
Just keep yourself occupied and get out the house as much as you can. If you truly loved them, it'll take a long time for the pain to dull.
Take Care!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2011): You leave him in the dust and move on....
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2011): Friends family should all help. Occupy yourself-join a club-get a new hobby. I know this sounds so self help but its the only way i have found. Theres nothing worse of a feeling but you do get over it or at least cope with it. And then someday you meet someone who loves you and you realise that anyone else you were with was only frogs along the way. You deserve to be loved. So go and find yourself first and then that special someone.
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reader, happy24birthday +, writes (19 April 2011):
 Removing all remnants of him from your life, no contact, stay very busy... one day you will wake up and realize you're over him... it takes time to fall in love and time to get over someone as well.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (19 April 2011):
 The only things I've found are time and space.
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