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My brother told me to leave my boyfriend!

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Question - (19 April 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 20 April 2011)
A female South Africa age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Im 24 yrs old dating a guy of 26. My brother told me to leave my boyfriend. Because my boyfriend talked bad things about my brother. My boyfriend is too jelous and gossips other people. I told him to leave that life. He agree. I love him. My brother told me to leave him. What should i do or who must i choose between two of them? Please help.

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A male reader, Capri2 Argentina +, writes (20 April 2011):

If you love your boyfriend, stay with him. Your brother won't stop being your brother anyway. If your boyfriend gossiped your brother he should apologize. That will help for sure, and is the right thing to do.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2011):

if they both love you there shouldnt be a choice. if your boyfriend is sorry and doesnt do it again then that should be okay. im sure your brother just wants whats right for you but most people have someone in their partners family who doesnt like them, its just something to overcome. if you know he is right for you then stay with him and your family should start to accept this. good luck

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