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writes:This is not so much a help issue, but more of a why. I keep getting horny and turned on over the slitest of things. I only have to think of porn or sex, or even less than that and i'm in the mood. I was with someone for 5 years, and i had no sex drive, what so ever. I would probably be horny once every 3 to 4 months, but i was unhappy and didn't want to be with the person. Then when we split, my sex drive went a'lot higher and i went frew a phase of really craveing sex. I was sleeping with someone for a while but just wanted to focus on my own life, so my sex life is none egzistant until i meet Mr right and even then, i'm not going to rush into bed with them. So that is in my thoughts, knowing it could be years until i have sex again.Well, i'm eating healthy and working out, so i don't know if this would contribute to my higher sex drive? I'm just wondering why i feel like this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2011): Good for you! Keep up the diet and exercise! That helps with mood and thus the possible increase in sex drive! More blood flowing, more energy... all contributors. Sounds like you were in a bad relationship sexually and now ur kinda more free your body is probably a little excited and maybe anxious too. Just be careful, make good decisions, and im sure youll find your guy. good luck.
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reader, Hugh.J +, writes (19 April 2011):
 If I were not totally and absolutely committed to my soul mate, I'd be asking for your phone number!
Seriously, I think it has all been said - you are free from the oppression of a bad relationship and able to express yourself freely and sexually. so do so!
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reader, Emski +, writes (19 April 2011):
 It sounds like your ex was the cause behind the loss of your sex drive. You cant be expected to get horny, if you're not attracted to the person in front of you.
The only reason behind your high sex drive now, might be the fact that it has been low for such a long time, that its just trying to balance itself out ...
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reader, ToHereKnowsWhen  +, writes (19 April 2011):
 Perhaps your sex drive has increased because you are happy now that you are out of the relationship that wasn't doing you any good. I don't think there is anything wrong with you or your desires. It sounds like you are living well and looking after yourself. Enjoy.
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