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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hey everyone. i really need some tips about how to get a girl dancing with you in a club? that would be cool if all the girls in DEARCUPID would answer this question since i guess they would know better what works with them :Dim kinda a good looking guy, i get many compliments from girls even though sometimes i dont feel that handsome, anyway the thing is when i see a hot girl in a club, i go straight and talk to her, im nt shy or something even though sometimes i get rejected but whos cares, what i need is how to start a conversation, i mean a really cool conversation with these hot girls and how to ask them to dance with me in a cool way, id love it if you would give me some phrases or something to use thanks a lot in advance
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reader, mizz.butterflies  +, writes (20 April 2011):
 a really good conversation should be different everytime.
what do i mean?
u cant say the same things to different girls.
U need to check the environment youre in.what is happening? Is the girl wearing anything specific? Does she have something you can notice and comment on?
Humor is something all girls appreciate.
Examples
Safe
U - Hey. How you doing?
Girl - Hey..Good.And you?
U - I'm enjoying the night...By the way I'm Mark.
G - Nice to meet you.
U - Nice to meet you too miss. Well, I am feeling the music right now,and you've caught my eye...would it be too much if i asked you to dance?
BETTER
U - Hey..
Girl - Hi
U - I noticed the ring on your finger...Looks like one my grandma has.
Girl - Oh really? Cool.
U - Right,can I see it?
*girls gives u her hand* U find this as an opportunity to do a handshake.
I am Mark . *SMILE*
Girl - I am Nadya.
U = Nice to meet you Miss Nice Ring...Do you come here often?
Girl - Sometimes...
After 5 mins of small talk, you can ask her to dance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2011): No sleezy chat up lines for a start, if you say something as simple as your very pretty or are you from round here and get chatting to her, suddenly say "oh i like this song, you wanna come out to dance?"Make sure you catch her eye first and smile at her, then when she smiles back you will feel more confident about approaching her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionit would be cool if you would give some nice phrases to start a conversation or to show your sence of humour :D come on girls what do u like to hear ?? lol
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reader, ToHereKnowsWhen  +, writes (19 April 2011):
 Wow, what a question. People have written entire books on this subject. As you have realised, you are playing a statistics game: sometimes you get rejected and sometimes you don't, and all of this can depend on a lot of things that may well be out of your control. I don't think I have a `one shot' answer that will always work but here are some ideas.
DON'T
* Call her `babe'.
* Ignore her friends.
* Use corny pick-up lines.
* Engage in macho theatrics.
DO:
* Start with a friendly `Hi'.
* Be confident.
* Show you have a sense of humour.
* Back off when you realise she has a boyfriend, etc...
Have fun.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2011): Well first always introduce your self. Then ask if she she comes there often and then just realx and be yourself and when the time is right aske her if she likes to dance and if she says yes then ask her to dance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2011): A lot of girls in clubs like the guys to be straight to the point, so if you see a girl you want to dance to just go over and say "hey do you wanna dance?" Well that's what I'd want in a club, if they start beating around the bush then I'd get a little bored and start thinking of reasons to leave.
I hope this helped. Good luck
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