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writes:good evening,i've been in love for a long time, there's this girl who was really close to our family, then we became good friends since for a long time, then i moved to an other country, and we kinda don't have a lot of contact, but since 6 years i have not seen her but my feelings have not changed an inch, i don't want to see anyone ells even thought this situation is not working. i have never told her this. but i think she knows. she will come to my country for holidays this year, but she still has a boyfriend. after the holidays i might not see her again for a long long time... so what should i do, tell her this time for reall altough she is still seing someone?what do you suggest?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2010): Wow....I wish I could meet a guy who wants me and only me...even after 6 years. She has a boyfriend, so basically this woman is OFF LIMITS regardless of how "in love" you are with her. I think you should keep your thoughts to yourself until the time is right...meaning, you tell her when she doesn't have a boyfriend and is no longer in love with him because, even if they break up, that doesn't mean that she is will be over him emotionally.
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