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*ellaflor77
writes:I was dating a guy 8 years ago.One day a common friend told me that he graduated from graduate school.So, I wrote him an email to his job account saying congratulations for your graduation, what do you plan to do now. It took him a week to reply and he said what a nice surprise to see your email, sorry for taking so long to reply, tell me about your life now, where are you. I replied, and it has been some days and still don´t get a reply. Do you think he is not interested, and replying only for courtesy? what could I ask him to know about his dating status now in a subtle way? Reply to this Question
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reader, Aida  +, writes (16 July 2010):
 it could just be he's a busy man and simply doesn't have the time to reply as soon as you would like. doesn't mean he isn't interested just means he's busy.
and if you want to know if he's single or not you should just ask him. as one person already stated - you only live once.
so just ask:)
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reader, person12345 +, writes (15 July 2010):
 You should just ask him if he's seeing anyone. Or be like, so does your girlfriend like blah blah? He could just be one of those people who doesn't check their email often. If he was really not interested he'd probably just not respond at all. That's the beauty of email, you don't have to tell someone you're not interested. You just don't answer.
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reader, Oregongrl1 +, writes (15 July 2010):
Well why don't you just say you was thinking about him! isn't that why you e-mailed and at least you'll get some sort of reply back knowing where you stand if hes married or got a girl ect. you only live once take a chance.
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reader, andre23 +, writes (15 July 2010):
You never know if hes single or not, but ask him straight up? Are you dating anyone?
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